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redbucket75 t1_ix00ng3 wrote

You really just fucked up by not locking the door

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zeldamuffin OP t1_ix04ajo wrote

the door doesn't have a lock

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InterestedDawg t1_ix08cwj wrote

books, anything heavy, your aunt's dead body... only joking.

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Chanchito171 t1_ix2bg1a wrote

Yup, just a heavy thing will stop somebody enough for you to yell out "don't come in here!"

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JackAquila t1_ix3ibnl wrote

A big old wooden plank rigged to fall on the opener

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cosmic-armadillo t1_ix29sez wrote

Then you fucked up by having sex in a room with no lock in someone else's house 🤷🏻‍♀️

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penderhippy t1_ix3479b wrote

>Then you fucked up by having sex in a room with no lock in someone else's house 🤷🏻‍♀️

didn't she say she's in her bedroom?!

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zeldamuffin OP t1_ix3v2ie wrote

Yeah it is mine

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penderhippy t1_ix3xid9 wrote

you live there?

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zeldamuffin OP t1_ix400ea wrote

No, I used to stay over often so I have my own bedroom

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penderhippy t1_ix48t2u wrote

then i hate to break it to you but that's your former bedroom / guest bedroom

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cosmic-armadillo t1_ix54awy wrote

Yeah, I used to live with my grandparents and had a room at their house. After I moved out, it became their room again. I recently moved back in with my grandmother because my grandfather passed away, and we still have our family reunions here, and I still wouldn't have sex here during one, especially with someone I haven't even introduced to my family as my bf/gf. And my door does have a lock. It's just disrespectful.

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jaybankzz t1_ix3gknz wrote

You should have taken a hint from Friday after next

> I convinced Donna to come back to the party, brought her to my room, slid my dresser in front of my door and gave myself an early Christmas present

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Sw1fto t1_ix1rw4w wrote

Bruh cmon, how is it her fault not her aunt’s for knocking and not waiting!?

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redbucket75 t1_ix1uby8 wrote

It's literally not her house, there's no expectation of privacy during a family gathering at a place you don't live

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Sw1fto t1_ix1uhlr wrote

I get that, and 100% why would they be having sex there, but then why knock at all? Like why knock on a bathroom door and not wait a couple second to see if someone’s in there

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FireWireBestWire t1_ix2duca wrote

Let me introduce you to half of American households. The knock is an announcement of entry, not a request for it.

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g297 t1_ix2pw08 wrote

"I'm respecting your privacy by knocking but asserting my authority as your parent by coming in anyway"

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Royal-Dust6837 t1_ix1yrzc wrote

Probably cause she doesn’t expect to see OP and her girlfriend hiding away nakedly sucking mounds in what was probably a children’s room.

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vatoreus t1_ix2eyau wrote

From the sounds of it, it’s her room at her grandparents’ large house. I’ve known many a grandparent to keep a room for their grandchildren, even after their all grown up.

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redbucket75 t1_ix201a4 wrote

It was a bedroom, not a bathroom. And a quick knock before opening isn't abnormal, though I agree it's dumb if you don't wait a few seconds

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rhymes_with_snoop t1_ix2cryg wrote

Real question, though, what purpose does knocking do if you don't wait for a response? What does it accomplish to knock then immediately walk in?

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redbucket75 t1_ix2ev3d wrote

You'd have to ask someone who does it. Maybe avoid startling the easily startled?

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Thrawn89 t1_ix3li31 wrote

We live in a society. Social customs exist so that people are used to interacting with each other in a relatively consistent way. Everyone acts differently, sure, but when a social customs is violated, it's extremely noticable. They don't always have practical use or make sense.

Knocking before entering is a social custom that people follow even though they intend on opening the door without a response.

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