YrPrblmsArntMyPrblms t1_iy13vk3 wrote
Reply to comment by Disastrous_Potato605 in TIFU By asking how my boyfriend is doing by lexifirds
A bf is not a partner, not yet. Plus she did not play the team game. She's young, she'll learn how to, someday. Or not, either way....
"I missed the part where that's my problem." ~Bully Maguire
Disastrous_Potato605 t1_iy144d8 wrote
Partner is a generic term for gf/bf/significant other. You’re mistaking it for a spouse. And u don’t need to be married to not suffer abuse. Nobody should be hitting their relationship partner, let alone anyone else. Abuse is always wrong.
YrPrblmsArntMyPrblms t1_iy2r8sw wrote
>You’re mistaking it for a spouse.
Probably, yeah.
>And u don’t need to be married to not suffer abuse.
That was not my point. It is self evident that hitting is not okay. Yet I see it being trumpeted as if everyone is 5.
My point is, no matter how wrong something is, under certain circumstances people will do things that are wrong. There's no denying that. But I guess you already know that.
Either most people or a boisterous minority are not fully aware of what potential for evil lies within them, which under certain circumstances would materialize. Unless you've properly integrated the inner shadow, then it's safe to consider yourself a loaded weapon. If you don't integrate that side of yourself, then you will (if aren't already) absolutely (during your lifetime) harm someone (either physically or mentally).
Crimes against humanity were committed by people, guess what you, I and the other 8 billion are.
Disastrous_Potato605 t1_iy34cjr wrote
It’s just sounds like you’re trying to explain away or make excuses for the behavior. The behavior is always wrong and a lack of self control doesn’t make u Batman, it makes u a bad person.
YrPrblmsArntMyPrblms t1_iy48s7k wrote
I'm explaining why things happen.
Being violent means you're a bad person, but not being capable of violence (being a rabbit, which can not do anything, but get eaten) does not mean you're a good person by default.
Being a good person - which many consider themselves to be - is hard. To be a good person you have to be a monster, but then not act monstrously.
Disastrous_Potato605 t1_iy4bkq5 wrote
You’re clearly not illiterate and yet here you are trying to justify hitting your partner because of inner darkness or capability for violence. Abuse is always wrong and it doesn’t matter why u do it. It only matters why to you because you did it because you’re inherently selfish to be putting ur partner thru that mental and physical pain and damage. End of story.
YrPrblmsArntMyPrblms t1_iy5g09d wrote
>It only matters why to you because you did it because you’re inherently selfish to be putting ur partner thru that mental and physical pain and damage. End of story.
What?
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