I’m 30F and my parents caught me looking at Playboy when I was like 10 (I didn’t realize internet history was a thing). I blamed it on one of my friends. The whole thing was super horrifying for me, they are very old fashioned.

I’m bisexual and I didn’t feel comfortable coming out to anybody until I was an adult. You don’t need to disclose this to anyone until you’re ready, either. Including anyone you decide to date. Just because we’re bi, it doesn’t mean we’re more prone to cheating or that it says anything about our attraction to our current partners of any gender.