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ei283 t1_ixepyp9 wrote
and if your SO refuses to forgive this incident, there are probably larger issues at play
redbucket75 t1_ixcujl0 wrote
A relationship rule about not watching porn feels very 1995
Rundownrose34 t1_ixd722o wrote
you've got mail
jungerfrosch t1_ixdmm82 wrote
If it's her preference and he is fine with it them who are you to judge?
redbucket75 t1_ixdp4og wrote
A normal human being who makes routine judgements about the situations I become aware of
jungerfrosch t1_ixdyeew wrote
Seems more like someone who feels everyone should subscribe to their morals..... i.e. a typical liberal....."your beliefs are only ok if I agree with you"
redbucket75 t1_ixe2pb2 wrote
LOL @ someone upset others make judgements about people... Immediately judges an entire group of millions of people.
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redbucket75 t1_ixe9wci wrote
Oh I guess you didn't read my comment. I think a no porn relationship rule sounds very 1995. That's the only opinion I've voiced in this thread. Have a nice day, crazy person.
The-Honorary-Conny t1_ixeex3t wrote
This is an oversimplication, liberals rarely take issue with the whole of conservative ideas. Just like there are many liberal idea that conservative have accepted with open arms. (E.g. safer working conditions and workers comp) it is specific ideals and ideas of conservative that they have issue with. (Removal of health care, reducing contraceptives access).
itsdylanjenkins t1_ixe0109 wrote
Jesus christ, typical republican denouncing science as "liberal leftist woke mob agenda"
jungerfrosch t1_ixe7udg wrote
What science am i denouncing?..... I am defending an individuals preference that they and their their spouse not watch porn.....a position that was being mocked.
Taleya t1_ixeuxtz wrote
You gotta shake your jowls when you say it, like a bloodhound with a bone.
liberrruuuuuuls
The-Honorary-Conny t1_ixead0w wrote
To judge is just to see and assess, what I'm wondering why are you getting offended by a comment which had no negative connections. Like I saw the comment and though, huh yea I can see this being popular in 1995. And that's it. No different than seeing a old car and going yea I bet that was cutting edge when it was first made. No one is saying that because it was popular a bit ago, that makes it bad.
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redbucket75 t1_ixd31m6 wrote
Odd specificity there...
MaccGawd t1_ixda19z wrote
Man, your true colors ain’t looking too good here…
ThisSorrowfulLife t1_ixdj85i wrote
Apologize for forgetting about it. One drive keeps dates on the files. Show the date downloaded and explain. And don't lie about it. At all. Disrespecting someone regarding sexual behaviors is 100% not a good idea, so be honest and get rid of it.
MajestaHazel t1_ixczai2 wrote
She sounds controlling and insecure. Have fun with that.
Deformator t1_ixeib2s wrote
+1, is she cheating lol?
Brlnn t1_ixctl8t wrote
I never understood why people “keep porn” especially gbs worth of it. Being young and horny is understandable and I’m not hating on anyone who does save it. Just why go through the trouble to save it all when you can just look it back up? Unless it’s some old school dvd shit.
MaccGawd t1_ixda98n wrote
So much of porn is pirated that a lot of it gets copyright claimed at some point. Some people don’t want to lose access to a really good video, so they download it. So I get it.
ThinkItDreamItDoIt t1_ixcuk82 wrote
Why do people make playlists for music? There's your answer.
Brlnn t1_ixcxj5x wrote
I understand but, having 2 terabytes of music seems a little less concerning than having 2 terabytes of porn saved. We all know porn can lead to many problems and having hundred of videos saved could indicate that that person may have a problem that needs to be addressed, no? That’s just my perspective on it
Eldhannas t1_ixd0xj2 wrote
It's very convenient to use Spotify or YouTube for all your music, until the artist decides to pull their albums off those services. Even more so for porn.
Brlnn t1_ixd10v5 wrote
That’s fair, never looked at it that way
Nothingtoseehere066 t1_ixeeb7u wrote
2 Terabytes is a bit large, but video takes up FAR more room than music. A good 7k video could be 15GB by itself. Especially if you get into VR porn. Then the file sized get even larger. Assuming normal though good quality videos take up a LOT of space.
ThinkItDreamItDoIt t1_ixd82sv wrote
I agree 2 Tb would be a troubling amount. A few gigs isn't crazy though, especially if it's high quality (which I'd assume it is considering it's worth saving). My wife probably has a few gigs saved and we barely ever watch porn.
Which brings up another point: especially when you have kids in the house, saving porn allows you to keep that browser history nice and clean haha.
VideoGamesForU t1_ixebd7z wrote
Things like VR videos are 5 - 20gb per video.
MaccGawd t1_ixf7gag wrote
What VR video is a whole ass 20 GB? 😂 I saved one (moment of weakness) and it was like 1.8 GB, bro.
VideoGamesForU t1_ixgjkpy wrote
Check any JAV VR video up. Also at that size it's shit quality. We are talking about 7k or even 8k movies for western stuff and high bit rate 4k videos for JAV stuff. Check CzechVR for western videos for example.
MaccGawd t1_ixhhcou wrote
Bet! Imma check that out; I wanna see what premium VR looks like.
NostradaMart t1_ixd5379 wrote
convenience is the reason. you don't need internet to watch your downloaded stuff. also easier to hide thant always having to clear your browser history.
Public-Rutabaga4575 t1_ixexo3w wrote
Some people (not me nope not me) don't have access to the internet all the time. Some people (again totally not me) work jobs that are remote and if you wanna wank you may need to download beforehand so your not stuck staring at extra curvy trees.
Prind25 t1_ixcwlgo wrote
Why do people buy "greatest hits of the 80's" albums?
Titan2486 t1_ixd22u0 wrote
I get what u mean! I had never actually used it tbh...idk why I kept it...fucked in the head I guess
Brlnn t1_ixd2ogc wrote
I wouldn’t say your fucked in the head by an means. Others have pointed out very logical aspects of why they save porn!
evernhamanderson t1_ixe2uts wrote
Try telling her the truth. Then ask her why she feels the need to be such a controlling harpy?
Ephidiel t1_ixfhvmd wrote
Your GF is the one with the issues here
lordgoofus1 t1_ixepjht wrote
Depending on how much you watched it, I can see some justification for why she'd ask you to reduce your consumption. But asking you to unfriend girls you don't know? That's pretty insecure and controlling on her behalf. Blowing up about one or two videos buried on your laptop that you didn't know where there is also rather unreasonable.
If there's other things she's also 'dictated' to you, then you're in an abusive relationship/dating someone with narcissistic tendencies, you just haven't noticed yet.
Automatic_River_8180 t1_ixg2dee wrote
No one should ever ask you to give up porn and masturbation unless you have a serious problem
SanchoVillaWNS t1_ixg70tb wrote
Only reason I know about onedrive is because I keep on getting emails they are gonna delete it. Do it already.
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weirdrugs t1_ixeciip wrote
Sounds pretty coercive controlly to me
EmperorPalpabeat t1_ixep01t wrote
So it’s ok for her to have sex often but porn is different?
Zeidra t1_ixf7f8f wrote
Your girlfriend has serious issues. I see too many red flags in this to consider this relationship as sane.
NostradaMart t1_ixd4vis wrote
that's a non-issue buddy. apologize for forgetting one drive, move on.