TIFU by accidentally putting nudes on my story.

Submitted by shittyfemboyalt t3_zy9efh in tifu

I was recording a video on snapchat, trying to get good angles for a photo I wanted to send to someone. I wanted to save the video so I could go back through it afterwards.

At school everyone pretty much knows me as a boy, but I actually want to transition. In the video I was wearing thigh highs and a crop top and nothing else. Also, my body is absolutely fucking disgusting. Ive got a small dick, ugly scars, and weird moles. I have basically no ass.

So, the video is super fucking embarrassing. And you can tell who I am in the video.

I went to save it, went to go look back on it, realised it hadn't saved. I thought, oh, thats just a bug, I'll just record it again.

So I did, same thing happened again.

About a minute later, a ton of people from my school started adding me on snapchat. I thought huh, thats weird.

I then made the horrifying realisation that I had put the videos on my story instead of my camera roll.

If you use snapchat, you'll know that the story button is right fucking next to the save button.

So many people had already seen the video, and shared it around. How fucking embarrassing.

I deleted the videos immediately off my story and put 'I DIDNT MEAN TO PUT THAT' or something similar (which I later deleted after thinking a bit more)

And I go to a private school paid for by the military, so I now have to either stay there and get bullied and humiliated for a long time, or I move to a public school during an important time of education and lose a ton of oppurtunities in my life.

I have really fucked up. I barely had friends before and now who the fuck is gonna want to associate with me.

At least one of the popular girls is on my side and is being mature about it, but the rest of the school is making fun of me and sharing the videos around. I have no idea how to fix this situation.

TL;DR: Accidentally pressed 'put on story' instead of 'save' on a nude snapchat video, and now everyone at school has seen my ugly naked body and im gonna be bullied even more than before.

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PlasticInTheBasket t1_j24insy wrote

I'm 26 was fairly popular and talk to like 3 people I went to school with and that's because I've known them since 1st grade. Public school has bullies too. Don't throw away opportunities over a mistake. And if you've got someone on your side that helps.

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Savage-Caper t1_j24znbr wrote

Safest bet is record videos on your camera app and not snapchat to avoid this in the future. That sucks and hope things get better.

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Effort-Firm t1_j24kg1m wrote

Don’t over think it and laugh it off, you will in a few years so why not now? It feels like a lot but it won’t be. Also lie and say it was a fancy dress challenge or some shit

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wetspaghetti420 t1_j274gmt wrote

My nudes got shared around in school. I got bullied for it until I graduated. I even moved schools and it still followed. Kids are fucking terrible but the minute you go to college/become an adult nobody remembers or cares. This will be something you’ll joke about with your friends in 10 years. It’ll suck but I promise you’ll get through it.

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TsuroPath t1_j259lx3 wrote

Kids are cruel but they are also fickle. This will cease to be the most exciting thing in school very soon.

I don't know what country you're in but your military will have core values that should include something like 'Respect for others'. The school staff, if they're decent, should strive to uphold these values and stamp down on any bullying.

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activ8r t1_j288mx0 wrote

Don't worry about it. I mean it. It's gonna be hard to believe now, but this is something you will laugh at later.
It will be embarrassing to begin with, but the sooner you can laugh at yourself and own it the better. I know this is far easier to say than to do, but it's the truth.
I don't have any useful suggestions beyond this I'm afraid. It sounds like you have an ally in the popular girl though. Maybe approach her and be open about it? It's likely she will shut down a lot of teasing if she really is on your side and if she isn't then there is no loss in trying. Who knows, you might even make a very good new friend.
I wish I could be more help, but let me assure you it will definitely, 100%, get better. Even if it's hard now.

As far as them sharing it around: I dunno where you live, or how old you are, but it's likely they are committing a crime. Either through distribution of CP, or violation of some kind of "revenge porn" law. The latter is very different from country to country, but generally speaking distribution of nudes without consent is at least actionable. Speak with a teacher about it and your parents.

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Lobasexhusband t1_j2cr50o wrote

Dunno how old you are OP. But things will get better. We’re humans. This is what we do. Regardless of your orientation, sexual preference, etc we’re all humans. We make mistakes and like I’ve seen other day kids can be brutal. Brutal af. But, once you become an adult none of it matters. You’ll be too busy worried about bills, if you have money to spend, and where you’re going in life to think about times like these. Laugh it off, find a good group of supportive people, and fuck the rest of em.

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alewberry t1_j27ddod wrote

depending on how old you are/were when the videos were made, you could start going down the legal route and threatening people with possession/distribution of CP.

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yolo_jeny t1_j27h9b5 wrote

She was the one who distributed as well, she would very likely be charged if she starts threatening others

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activ8r t1_j287z09 wrote

Not sure what kind of fucked up legal system you are in, but accidentally posting your own nudes, then removing them, is not distribution of CP. She won't get into any trouble for reporting this to the police (if she is underage of course, but many countries also have "revenge porn" laws, which this is likely to be covered under).

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