LordGoldenEagle t1_j28wxmz wrote
A concert is a sketchy way to meet someone ( ok you like similar music tick) but he was hitting on you. Hence he cold shouldered you when you nixed him. If he was genuine he would have settled for friend. As it was he avoided you because you wouldn't give out immediately to a stranger. He was a bum. You did good. This is your subconscious speaking
halilyankee t1_j28y1dl wrote
This is ridiculous/you have no idea what you're talking about. Was the guy supposed to act the same after being turned down and come off as clingy/creepy?
I think being on the internet too much has led you to forget how the real world works, you see someone you like, you start a chat and if they show interest the dynamic continues, if they don't you readjust and act accordingly in order to keep them from feeling uncomfortable around you.
There was absolutely no bum behavior showed by this guy.
LordGoldenEagle t1_j28zyi6 wrote
He certainly made her feel uncomfortable and lost interest in her pretty quick. I like in the real world too.
halilyankee t1_j291bl6 wrote
Yes, he made her feel so uncomfortable that now she's here posting about how much she regrets not going out with him or at least taking his info. Lol
atomicitalian t1_j2900re wrote
Not everyone is looking to fill out their friend roster. Sometimes people are looking for something more, and that's ok. No one owes their friendship to anyone else. Just like she can turn down his romantic advances he has every right to withhold his companionship.
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