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acmecorporationusa t1_j1p6vs9 wrote

I initially wanted to respond that it sounds as if you are all caught up in your feels, but then it occurred to me "shit, I get hangry too".

Asking your opinion about contentious topics does not necessarily equate to picking a fight. After all, they have never met you either.

Perceived gender disparity in domestic tasks in a holiday setting might just be how they have always done it. It might well be offensive to you based on your life experiences, but that doesn't make it objectively offensive.

You have six months invested. If it was truly that horrible, bounce. There are many more fish in the sea.

Alternate response: Grow up, for fuck's sake.

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FG88_NR t1_j1q0tk8 wrote

The only thing here that was a real issue is the sexist comments her bf made at her expense.

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activ8r t1_j1qayfo wrote

Absolutely, but as she didn't say exactly what these comments were it may well be a misunderstanding or overly sensitive response. OP seems to be on edge as it is, but is an unreliable narrator of the situation. Not much we can judge objectively here.

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