Abdlomax t1_j1wlkfo wrote on December 27, 2022 at 11:03 PM

Reply to comment by WinterWoede in TIFU by thinking I could weather a bad trip by myself by WinterWoede

You are not a good judge of “minor.” The general malaise could be a sign of concussion. A stroke could be triggered. I hope you are okay, and that you get counseling for those “issues” you wanted to forget about. The brain does not have an erase button, you can only hide things for a while, and they come back, perhaps in disguise. You can add choice to your responses, but you must be conscious to do that.

[deleted] t1_j1wm8hg wrote on December 27, 2022 at 11:07 PM

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WinterWoede OP t1_j1wnxcw wrote on December 27, 2022 at 11:19 PM

I have counselling for other issues, and I've discussed this matter there too. At this point it seems like the only way to resolve the issue is to talk it over with the person who is inadvertently hurting me (who I am also inadvertently hurting). But to discuss this over Christmas and New Year's is really not the right time. We've agreed to postpone talking until the new year. Coming to this agreement helps, and it brings me relief that there won't be additional pain for a while.