For context, I am in a happy relationship for 3.5 years but we haven't had sex in a little while and she did not know I was watching VR porn nor masturbating.

After enjoying breakfast with my GF (i didn't thank her) and her mum who is visiting for the holidays, I went to the master bedroom's ensuite to shower and have a quick wank. I felt adventurous and safe today so I even decided to experiment with VR porn whilst the GF was clearing up.

After doing the deed, I left my bottle of lube (lovehoney water based - i rate 5/5) and VR controls out on display and just hopped in to the shower. That's when my GF opened the door and walked in to use the toilet whilst I showered. She sees the bottle of lube and asks why it's here. I sheepishly say "for jerking off" to which she replies "we'll talk about this later". I feel relieved because she seemed to have focused only on the lube and not the VR controllers.

The rest of day goes like normal which puts me at a false sense of security. As we are driving to a restaurant to eat out, just me and her. She asked "so what were the VR controls doing next to the lube?"

Long story short it was a painful and embarrassing 20 minute drive of me explaining how I am masturbating to VR porn. To add salt to injury, she spends the rest of the evening making VR and porn jokes at my expense.

TL;DR I fucked up by showing my GF I jerk off to VR porn by leaving it next to a bottle of lube. I might be banned from using my VR headset for the forseeable future