Submitted by Pleasant_Broccoli451 t3_zywbmk in tifu
I live close to a pretty famous club area with different events every weekend. A club I like invited several well know DJs and dancers. It was a prelude to the upcoming New Year's Eve party. Like it get's crazier every day leading up to NYE and on the 31 Dec it's the highlight.
Two of my god friends came to visit their familys for NYE and I'm off work this week so I invited them to have a drink and go to the club later. I was super excited for the event and hyped them up for like two weeks.
Here comes a little back story from a week ago: My roommate had a boyfriend. She lost feelings, wasn't happy anymore and ended the relationship out of respect for him. She did that at our place in case he get's mad or overreacts. And he did. He yelled at her about the weirdest shit. Cussed her out and was over all really aggressive. The relationship was fine and he seemed like a good guy while being with her. We became friends but my roommate is also my best friends so of course I'm on her side.
I can't stay out of things so I went into her room and told him to calm down. He yelled at me, I yelled back, my bestie cried. He raised his hands to her and I got between them. He kinda hit me but didn't get me properly. I threatend to call the police and he left. I'm going to spare you any more details but the break up was messy. Fragile ego on his side - do I have to say more?
Last night my friends and I went to a bar, had a few cocktails and than went to the club. We queued for half an hour just to get to the door. And guess who was the bouncer?
My best friends ex boyfriend...
He of course recognised me and said that I can't get in. I was shocked because I thought as a grown man he can put a line between work and private life. I asked if my friends can get in and he said no. I asked him why and he said that I know why. I asked the other bouncer but her ex jumped in telling his co worker to not let me in under any circumstances.
Being my argumentative self I asked for the manager. I usually don't ask for managers but this situation was unfair and since I can't talk to him like we're two grown ups. He went inside to look for his boss. The manager came out saying I can't get in because I'm not the right patron for their etablissement by what he heard about me. The things he heard about me were the things the ex boyfriend told him in the last 2 minutes.
I can't let something like that sit on me so I argued with him to let my friends in at least. It's not there fault I had a fall out with the bouncer. The manager agreed BUT BANNED ME????
My friends didn't went in (they are so sweet, aren't they?) and we left. This morning I sent an email to the organizer with a formal complaint. I know it probably won't do anything but I'm a petty bitch.
TL;DR: I had a fall out with my besties ex boyfriend who happend to be a bouncer at a famous club I tried to get into. He didn't let me. I argued and now I'm banned from the club.
Interesting-Month-56 t1_j2860ie wrote
I don’t think you fucked up.
I think the ex and his coworkers are shit on par with Andrew Tate.