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DaClems t1_j0bwl2y wrote

The problem is letting family and friends guilt trip and obligate you into doing something you don't want to be doing. You make the choice of where you want to be, no one else should influence you. Fuck guilt trippers, cut them out of your life.

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blodskaal t1_j0d51kh wrote

Both sides are guilt tripping you into attending. Shitty all around. I would tell everyone to fuck right off. Do what you want to do. But your friends are shitty for putting you into a spot. Your dads shitty for not considering what you wanna do.

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Fester_The_DJ_1 t1_j0f3h80 wrote

That's somewhat like my own life, TBH. My family members have all passed away.

Friends come and go like the tide. I frequently overhear them talking about the most recent big party they attended.

Whenever I mention or ask why I wasn't invited, they play dumb, "Oh we didn't mean to do that. I may have believed it in the beginning, but not anymore.

One may expect that kind of behavior from kids, but not from SENIOR CITEZENS IN ASSITSED LIVING??!!?? I guess some people just never grow up.

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