TrophiesAndGold t1_j1d7amk wrote on December 23, 2022 at 12:57 PM

Your aunt seems like an Incredibly level headed person, thankfully… Unless everyone is ok with it and moved on, it’s not a good idea to get involved with friends/family members ex’s.. especially only a couple of months after a relationship has ended, it just shows incredible disrespect for the person your related too, you owe your aunt.

Sarcastic-pickle2 OP t1_j1d7t1b wrote on December 23, 2022 at 1:03 PM

Yeah my aunt is amazing. I thought she is gonna hate me forever but here I am sitting in her living room and writing this. She basically raised me after my mom left and she still sees me as her daughter. What I did was stupid and I'll do anything to show her how sorry I am

TrophiesAndGold t1_j1d9slf wrote on December 23, 2022 at 1:22 PM

I hope everything works out well with your aunt and with the rest of your family and they can come around.. your aunt is right, it was stupid but you definitely didn’t deserve to be left homeless over it.. so hopefully things can work out for you

RagnaroknRoll3 t1_j1flkmq wrote on December 23, 2022 at 11:28 PM

Your aunt has a very Red Foreman attitude. You definitely fucked up and are a dumbass here, but you're not a bad person.

Sarcastic-pickle2 OP t1_j1gioni wrote on December 24, 2022 at 4:03 AM

> a very Red Foreman attitude

A what?

mehgcap t1_j1gj50b wrote on December 24, 2022 at 4:07 AM

I'm pretty sure this is a reference to That Seventies Show. The father of one of the main characters, Eric, is a rough, short-tempered, stern man. At the same time, he still loves his family and can be very sweet. Tough but fair comes to mind.

archiangel t1_j1gp0er wrote on December 24, 2022 at 5:05 AM

You are also in high school, so I’d say you were also a victim in some ways. I am in no ways trying to demean you, but generally people aren’t done growing up mentally or emotionally until their late twenties, if even that. Regardless of how things went down, you probably weren’t mature enough to be of fully sound judgement on what you did. I cringe now at some of the things I did in high school and college when I thought I was such an adult. Yes you messed up and learned consequences, but the bigger villain here is the ex - even if you had come onto him, he should’ve been the one to walk away. Also in your telling it sounds like you slept with the XF because you thought they had broken up, when they hadn’t. If this is the case he also lied to you in a big way.

I’m glad you have the chance to mend your relationship with your aunt. And I’m glad you told her and she is rid of that piece of trash. Hopefully the rest of the family will calm down about things too soon.