Im glad things are working out. Your family is Toxic as fuck. How I see it, is that too consenting adults who are both single at the time decided to enjoy each other's company. And then called it off. It's none of your family's fucking business what you do with your body. I'm glad you're aunt is at least sensible sort of. I understand why she's mad but then if she didn't want him playing with anyone she shouldn't have broke up with him. I'm sorry it turned out like this because you don't deserve it.