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ferndeer t1_j1epent wrote

You didn't fuck up, you were groomed. He's 30 years old and should know better. How is no one else in this sub not seeing that? I'm 21 and would not touch an 18 year old with a 10 foot pole.

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NeedsWit t1_j1hdq85 wrote

Nonsense, OP is 18 and adult.

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ferndeer t1_j1lvaxa wrote

Took a really quick glance at your profile and I'm relieved that you're the kind of person who would disagree with me. Means I have my values in check.

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NeedsWit t1_j1msf42 wrote

That's how you tell me you're a hardcore feminist without telling me you're a hardcore feminist.

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ZergeNN t1_j1fbyxm wrote

stop calling everything grooming

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ferndeer t1_j1feg48 wrote

"Grooming is a process of manipulation and trust-building that a perpetrator will use to create an atmosphere where they can exploit a child. Grooming is about making a child think that abuse and exploitation is normal."

There is no way that a family member almost twice the age of a likely highschooler can have a consensual sexual relationship with them. Also, your attitude towards grooming is complicit in its societal acceptance. Hopefully understanding it better will change your perspective.

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ZergeNN t1_j1fllh8 wrote

she is 18 not a child, there was no abuse

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Conveyys t1_j1gawk8 wrote

she's in highschool still dude and from the sounds of things, this dude knew her since she was a minor

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shadefeuer t1_j1fszqc wrote

If you're calling 18 not a child it's fairly obvious how old you are. As stated above by the other user, 21 myself and wouldn't touch an 18 year old with a 10 foot pole. You're fucked if you think dating a girl still in highschool as a full grown adult damn near double her age isn't a problem.

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ZergeNN t1_j1gj3ja wrote

i doesnt said its not wierd but its definitly not grooming , and nobody gives a fuck if you would or wouldnt touch a 18 years old with a 10 foot pole

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