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4_Legged_Duck t1_j56wro5 wrote

Pretty obvious OP fucked up and made bad choices and we are all commenting on that, but can we pause for a moment to depreciate how crappy this guy is for recording her without her permission? That crap is awful. Despite everything you did, OP, sorry that happened. Might want to look into a revenge porn laws in your state in case he posts/distributes, whatever.

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Nuggs_and_drugs OP t1_j575ba3 wrote

just clarifying even though it’s like the least important, i am a dude. i don’t know anything about all that revenge porn stuff. is there anyway i can force him to delete those videos?

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4_Legged_Duck t1_j57oy2y wrote

My mistake, I shouldn't have assumed. Apologies.

Legally, usually, there isn't. But posting it online? You can usually make the webhost take it down (or rather get a lawyer to send a letter if they won't). Making them delete it is a lot harder. You can always ask but there's no way to force that to happen. Good luck

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