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Fr0stW4lker t1_j57maqn wrote

“I made an adult decision and now I’m paying the prices for said choices which include, realizing I made a mistake, my BF ghosting me for a completely valid reason, and getting called out for it on the internet.” Is the only way to read this.

Yes, you realized your “mistake”, I’m calling it a decision as someone that’s been cheated on, and that’s growth, but at the same time, He should completely ghosts you. It’ll feel a fraction of how bad as he must’ve felt when he found out.

I’m not saying you’re a shitty person, but you are. Learn from this and grow to do better in your next relationship should you get one

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Nuggs_and_drugs OP t1_j57nqld wrote

he doesn’t know. hes been missing since the beginning of january just fyi but your point still stands ig

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Fr0stW4lker t1_j57qhv2 wrote

Are you sure he doesn’t know? Like with 100% certainty? H could’ve gotten in touch with him through the birthday girl or some other way. You never have to tell your SO you cheated because something changes immediately and there’s some way to tell.

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Nuggs_and_drugs OP t1_j57r4o6 wrote

yes. this all happened on tuesday. he’s been missing since the beginning of january. that paired with the fact that he’s mentioned trying to get into a program makes me strongly believe this is the case.

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Nuggs_and_drugs OP t1_j57rc4p wrote

and also there is no way he’ll ever find out since all the friends that went out with us don’t know him or have his number or social media.

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