i won’t say any names incase anyone i know finds this so i’ll be calling my best friend by A and my other friend by G. for context i’m in year 10 (14-15) just to give a bit of an age range.

so basically my best friend, A, has like severe anxiety and it’s like really bad. she has to have weeks off school because she just can’t come in and stuff and i get that she’s mentally ill i really do but before i met G she was my only friend so when she used to go off i used to be all by myself. and while i admit i always went into a mood with her for a bit it was nothing serious i swear like maybe i was a bit passive aggressive sometimes but that’s it!!

so then we met G and he’s honestly so sweet. he’s into lads so i’m not into him obviously but it’s so so nice to have a friend when A has her time off.but she’s just straight up rude to him sometimes and i’m like 80% sure it’s because she’s jealous that i’m spending time with another friend but it’s whatever most of the time she’s nice to him.

my problem is that on wednesday i had half (first 2 periods+break) off to go HOSPITAL. that’s a pretty valid reason in my opinion but she doesn’t seem to think so. so she went really really bitchy with me and started to say all these sly comments and now she’s gone off for a week and earlier i texted her “u ok?” and she just left me on opened.

i feel really bad but i just feel like i need to put me first sometimes i’ve tried to be patient but i should be out having fun right??? like whenever i go over to hers she just wants to sit in and it’s not a crime to want to go out at 14 and have a teenage life right

was this a fuck up??? because my mum keeps on saying to just keep on giving her time but 🤷🏻‍♀️

TL;DR: my friend has really bad anxiety but idk if i can put up with it anymore

(sorry if this is bad don’t rlly use reddit and this is a spam acc)