Sorry for the rambling everyone I dont like leaving out details :D

You didn't fuck up. Your sister is just a dick with things like this.

It's hard not to get hurt by people you care about

Your sister is a dick but also if you can get a job, and you're collecting SSI, that's kind of illegal. At least in my state.

It’s the fact that she never did it to me before that hurts me, like she was waiting for the perfect time 😭

Yeah so I can’t get a job atm. Otherwise they stop sending money to my parents

So the first thing you did was to get your phone, create a reddit account and post this story? I mean that doesn't really sound like someone with aspergers and social anxiety.

It’s a throwaway. I have a phone, we’re poor, not disconnected from society

They are saying if you are physically capable of having a job and aren’t just to collect the SSI, that’s fraud