mook1178 t1_j50qmiv wrote on January 19, 2023 at 4:28 PM

Reply to comment by Kanniebaal in TIFU by sending my friend a condolence message about her Dad dying by damndarling

But what if I don't actually wan to be called?

someawfulbitch t1_j512dqu wrote on January 19, 2023 at 5:39 PM

Then you shouldn't offer anything in the first place

LucidBeaver t1_j518vgj wrote on January 19, 2023 at 6:18 PM

Then you can respond: “Please let me know what I can do to help. Though I’ve been so busy with work, life, etc and have exams/deadline coming up, I’ll make it work.

Basically, make it about you while still technically offering to help even though you’re basically saying you don’t have time. How to quickly lose a friend 101!

gambling_monkey t1_j5110hl wrote on January 19, 2023 at 5:31 PM

Lol take my upvote.