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CrystalQueen3000 t1_j51lgtq wrote

A heads up is always best, some people are really squeamish about blood

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Big_Bottom_69 t1_j51x0fr wrote

If this should happen again, you need to relay the important information in a way that preserves your mutual dignity. My go-to is to put my mouth close to his ear, then scream "I'm shedding my uterine lining; there's blood all over the place"! While giving the universal sign language for intercourse.

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DownrightDrewski t1_j51lzrs wrote

Yeah, you need to warn the guy...

If you like him try to talk to him, but, he may be squeamish about this.

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Sycatricks t1_j528tx7 wrote

You cant call yourself a warrior if your sword hasnt tasted blood

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Maze_13 t1_j51rx81 wrote

I get that a head's up is nice when you know you're on your period. Although I can also imagine that it's a difficult subject to talk about when you haven't known the person for a long time. However, I am surprised that you/he only realised it after foreplay. Weren't you using a pad or a tampon, which in itself is a warning?

I don't really agree with the reactions about it being foul or people being squeamish about blood. A head's up isn't always possible, for example when you unexpectedly start your period or when it's your first time and you just happen to bleed or because the sex was a bit rough which can also cause bleeding. I get that it's not something you would expect, but please realise that it's not like we enjoy bleeding or that we do it on purpose. It doesn't really help being humiliated because of it.

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Zaraxan t1_j528bho wrote

Took a girl out on her birthday ended up finger banging her didn’t find out she was on her period until I tried to take her pants off. Not fun.

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Fun-Pea-880 t1_j52olqu wrote

As an older man who has earned his red wings, it wasn't that big of a deal.

> I like to please my partner. Putting a towel down makes sex not so spontanious.

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Apollo_3249 t1_j522nlc wrote

It’ll probably be alright. I’d explain that you were smitten with him and it slipped your mind

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Local_Economy t1_j51yqej wrote

Real gangstas run red lights

Dudes a lame

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Magillacudi t1_j523tfm wrote

You tell ahead of time, period. Lol

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GateOfD t1_j527l1d wrote

Couldn't you have mentioned like, "sorry, i was on my period..but I don't have a dentist appointment tomorrow.." to make up for it

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groveborn t1_j53yy9k wrote

I don't see fault here. I'd be thrilled to have sex with a pretty lady on her period. It's just messier, not overly disgusting....

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lollamao96 t1_j51ra47 wrote

Are you comparing blood to sh!t?... Tho I don't understand why he didn't notice a bloody pad or a tampon or sth lol

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PulseEmber t1_j51tpo7 wrote

"Am I a bad person for not warning him"

Am I a bad person for having a small dick and not warning?! The answer is YES!

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