Impulsive94 t1_j4gh971 wrote
That doesn't sound like a TIFU to me, that sounds like you got spiked and raped. Keep the jacket in a plastic bag somewhere safe as there may be evidence in or on it. Check in with your friends and ask them to go through your night step by step - who they saw you with, where you went, the state you were in, who you left with etc. One person might not have all the answers but you should be able to piece it together from different chunks.
Your phone may also have your location history to show where you were and at what time - for Android you can find it in Google Maps, for iPhone I'm not sure but it very likely has the same info somewhere.
Check for photos taken on your phone or by friends - you might recognise someone and remember something.
Other than that do not shower, drink shit loads of straight water and go to a hospital ASAP. They'll draw some blood and test for drugs commonly used in this scenario and pull DNA where appropriate. This could help massively as evidence.
Regardless of how you feel about it, you don't remember the night & would have been in a state where you couldn't consent. Even if you gave the dude a resounding YES PLEASE or initiated, it shouldn't have happened.
l_u_n_a t1_j4jhn4e wrote
Only thing to add here is opt for a paper bag rather than plastic. I'm sure cops will take over and transfer it into the proper bag, but the lack of air in plastic can cause mold and decay of the clothing and any potential DNA on it.
I agree with everyone else. Even when I have blacked out there's usually a fade in and out before hand. Definitely go in babes and see if you were drugged and get a rape kit done. I know it can feel shameful or embarrassing. Though trust me from experience, not doing or saying anything is worse.
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