as the title says- my boyfriend is Venezuelan. his parents were born and raised there and immigrated over to the US with his older brother. Im white. I recently was invited over to his house as his parents have an issue with my father smoking weed, despite them smoking cigarettes. No problem. the first visit goes okay. His dad tells me to make myself at home and his mom who wasn't feeling well came downstairs for a bit to talk to me.

I was happy with myself until he told me after meeting me his mom said he could do better and that she doesnt understand why he likes me since im short, white, skinny, and have no boobs or ass. She's also convinced that my father who is my only real family is a drug addict. Today, I was invited over again. It went horribly. His mom said I stunk like weed (i literally covered myself in perfume before leaving) and glared at me and insulted me to my bf as if just because I dont speak spanish means I cant put 2 and 2 together. Everytime my bf left the room we were in she tried to argue with him about me. She told him I didnt have proper manners because I didnt know the guests were supposed to greet the hosts first as every other house (including other hispanic families!) ive ever been to and my own is the host is supposed to greet the guest and the first time I came over they both greeted me first! I dont know what to do. I love this boy and I'm trying to do everything to comply with what they want. I dont feel comfortable in their house and i ended up crying as he promised me it would be okay. Im at my wits end

TLDR; Hispanic bfs mom hates me cause im not perfect in body proportion, my dad smokes, and apparently im rude when they were the ones being rude to me.