Ok that makes more sense.

Yeah I wasn't accusing her of stopping, it's understandable. My wife didn't, we were even using it to try induce labour on one of the time but someone wanting to stop when their body is a mass of hormones, growing aches and after even an easy delivery damage and healing, yeah it's understandable.

I was just saying she put the breaks on it, it's up to her to take them off. You mentioning your frustration could be seen as pressuring her to do something she's not ready to yet.