ImperceptibleFerret t1_j6i3gvc wrote on January 30, 2023 at 2:22 PM

What do you think you have to make up for? This self flagellation is unhealthy.

[deleted] OP t1_j6i6hdg wrote on January 30, 2023 at 2:45 PM

You have a wife who is pregnant with twins and dealing with her crazy mother? If not then you wouldn't know how stressful she is right now. Also the reason I think I have to make it upto her because she and I agreed that whenever we feel like we aren't getting enough sex or our communication has a gap or our feelings are changing we would first talk about it without judgements. I know masturbation was not a bad thing. She is not upset about that. She was upset I didn't voice my concern because I was kinda sexually frustrated and didn't talk to her about it. She thought I was looking at another woman and after I explained she did calm down

Xelacik t1_j6iffgg wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:46 PM

So she gets pissed when you look at other women??? She thinks you never watch porn?

[deleted] OP t1_j6ihlgi wrote on January 30, 2023 at 4:01 PM

I actually rarely watch porn. And we both think it is disrespectful to your spouse if they masturbate by looking at the picture of a random man/woman.