You have nothing to make up for. You did tell her and she said once she was comfortable it would resume.

And then the child woke up, neighbours came, parents FaceTimed and everyone started clapping.

Talk more with your wife about your feelings

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I don’t think I’ve ever jerked off to an image of my SO. Mental picture of course, but never an actual picture.

Yeah. Even biden came and clapped. He even resigned for me. /s

Probably the most wholesome masturbation story ever

I do all the time. Far more than other porn.

Mostly I use porn as an inspiration for the sort of pics I want to take of my SO.

Eh, it's not a FU.

It's a bit of a messy situation, but she was the one who stopped the sex, the ball's in her court.

Hurr hurr .

Sure an argument could be made for you looking at porn, but even not then.

You relieved a need, without pressuring her.

Eh, it's not a FU.

It's a bit of a messy situation, but she was the one who stopped the sex, the ball's in her court.

Hurr hurr .

Sure an argument could be made for you looking at porn, but even not then.

You relieved a need, without pressuring her.

Let's all give this wholesome guy a hand.

"im not a weak man who can't go for a few months without sex."

I'll be honest with you, if you masturbated, this should classify as not having been able to endure it.

Please no. I am married.

She stopped for a good reason. I mean you would be uncomfortable too if you are carrying 2 babies inside of you. She is not mad that I masturbated, she was mad that I didn't tell her about my sexual frustration and we always had an agreement that we will tell each other everything.

Ok that makes more sense.

Yeah I wasn't accusing her of stopping, it's understandable. My wife didn't, we were even using it to try induce labour on one of the time but someone wanting to stop when their body is a mass of hormones, growing aches and after even an easy delivery damage and healing, yeah it's understandable.

I was just saying she put the breaks on it, it's up to her to take them off. You mentioning your frustration could be seen as pressuring her to do something she's not ready to yet.

Looking at the amount of men who cheat on their wives, masturbation is nothing.

i think o came off on the wrong foot here, im not sayong what he did was a bad thing, god no. What im trying to say is that what he said is a really tiny bit hypocritical.

i ahrer with yoir point tho.

How is it hypocritical?

because he couldn't entirely contain his intimate desires.

It would make him a hypocrite if he actually started cheating. Masturbating is a sexual act but it is not the same as sex. He wasn't being hypocritical.

plot twist: OP was whacking it to porn but knows wife uses reddit.

Too late now. You're best to just let us finish.

What do you think you have to make up for? This self flagellation is unhealthy.

my comment isnt about cheating, anon.

to compare, what you are saying could be compared to someone who drinks a cup of cocoa despite them being on a pledge on not eating chocolate anymore.

HAHAHA!! Porn doesn't really excite me that much because I have a wife. She is hot.

You have a wife who is pregnant with twins and dealing with her crazy mother? If not then you wouldn't know how stressful she is right now. Also the reason I think I have to make it upto her because she and I agreed that whenever we feel like we aren't getting enough sex or our communication has a gap or our feelings are changing we would first talk about it without judgements. I know masturbation was not a bad thing. She is not upset about that. She was upset I didn't voice my concern because I was kinda sexually frustrated and didn't talk to her about it. She thought I was looking at another woman and after I explained she did calm down

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

So she gets pissed when you look at other women??? She thinks you never watch porn?

I actually rarely watch porn. And we both think it is disrespectful to your spouse if they masturbate by looking at the picture of a random man/woman.