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agillenk t1_j4fis2s wrote

God, I knew where this was going a mile away. I hope your wife finds out and leaves you.

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RepresentativeNew718 OP t1_j4fixuf wrote

I would never think of doing something like that ever man, its a mistake

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agillenk t1_j4fj1o2 wrote

? You chose to take drugs and to have sex with someone else

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RepresentativeNew718 OP t1_j4fj5ko wrote

i was not myself, i lost it fully man, it was just something that became out of the situation, im not even into trans women g

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womaneatingsomecake t1_j4fjdep wrote

>it was just something that became out of the situation

>i was not myself

"Sentences both my cheating exs told me after they cheated, for 500!"

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RepresentativeNew718 OP t1_j4fk336 wrote

ive messed up ill admit that, didnt cheat, and i would never go for someone whos not a cis women

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womaneatingsomecake t1_j4fltk2 wrote

>didnt cheat, and i would never go for someone whos not a cis women

You did cheat. You did go for a non cis woman, who was 19. You offered her party drugs.

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Sonoshitthereiwas t1_j4grxm2 wrote

So you’re saying you’re okay with cheating as long as it’s a cis woman?

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Exotic_Swordfish_845 t1_j4hjefk wrote

Dude we already know you're a shit hole. No need to throw transphobia into the mix too 🤢

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SD455TransAm t1_j4ijdhn wrote

Dude is a jackass, but saying you're only attracted to women is now transphobic? C'mon now.

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Exotic_Swordfish_845 t1_j4iknmf wrote

No, he can be attracted to whomever! It's not like sleeping with a trans girls is gonna "turn him gay" or some shit. I was just referring to his fixation on the fact that she was trans in the post and comments.

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SD455TransAm t1_j4il6xe wrote

It's a pretty important detail to mention, especially when he's married, dont you think?

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Exotic_Swordfish_845 t1_j4imn0f wrote

Tbh I feel like the bigger detail is the fact he cheated on his wife??? Who it was with and what her genitalia are seems much less relevant tbh. Although the fact she's just 19 is ick

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SD455TransAm t1_j4iqo15 wrote

Please be careful when getting down from that horse of yours. It's awful high.

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Call_me_eff t1_j4k1mtj wrote

No, saying it's not cheating because it wasn't a cis woman is

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agillenk t1_j4fja2k wrote

It’s your fault that you weren’t yourself. Take some responsibility and tell your wife.

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RepresentativeNew718 OP t1_j4fji37 wrote

im going to but the problem is we come from a muslim family, if she tells her family ill lose my own family. im going to tell her but also make an exit plan

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33Bees t1_j4iq8cn wrote

Bu-bu-but I'm going to lose my family.

Poor guy. Guess you should've thought about that before you dosed on drugs and ate out a strangers ass while your wife was out of town.

I hope she takes you for everything you've got. You don't deserve it.

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Odrizzle6842 t1_j4fk2kq wrote

So obviously you’ve made a huge mistake, but the next wrong move would be to listen to any random Redditor’s advice because they don’t have the same stake or interest in your relationship that you do. Most people on Reddit would like to see someone who cheats or makes a mistake have their entire life ruined as a way to “take responsibility”. Sure you’ll have to tell your wife at some point, but fortunately life is full of possibilities and your relationship doesn’t have to end over some drug fueled infidelity.

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womaneatingsomecake t1_j4flilv wrote

Fuck that. If my gf took MDMA and took a young girl to our home, and had sex with her, I'd never want to see my ex again.

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RepresentativeNew718 OP t1_j4fkljn wrote

It cant end like this man, ill be finished and alone in this world, all because i took some drug, i did even more than that, shit i would never even imagine doing..

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Netzroller t1_j4h9o54 wrote

OMG - stop the wining and take some responsibility for your life and actions, OP!

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bubba7557 t1_j4gkhim wrote

Have your wife take Molly and invite your new transgender gf over at the same time. That'll end well

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