TIFU by having my secret leaked

Submitted by RhubarbParticular736 t3_10qayt0 in tifu

So just a little background check, i'm a male (16) and in a friend group in school containing roughly about 30 or so people. mainly boys but a few girls. I am a type of guy that watches h3n** and you know do my business.

Basically rewind 4 weeks ago, me and my friend, lets call him friend 1, was in a private call and did truth or dare. That somehow turned into me releasing my secrets, the secret was that i w*nked to the girls in our friend group, he did the same thing and promised not to tell anyone. NOW fast forward 2 weeks later, friend 1 got a little agitated with my other friend (friend 2) and released my secrets and name to him so now he knows. At first he didn't believe me and friend 1 decides to spill all the details leaving me to decide. Yeah not the greatest friend i can't lie. So i'm left with no choice and had to spill the beans, now at first he finds it weird and then he goes on with his day and promised not to tell anyone cause he knows that i will get f***cked if it gets out.

Fast forward to today, Friend 1 gets with an argument with all the girls in the friend group with a similar problem and suddenly out of nowhere spills all the information about me. Friend 2 tells me about it when i got home but said that the girls doesn't think its me but will investigate. (Friend 1 is the type of guy that doesn't think before he speaks, so you can wonder how many people he has offended or said weird stuff)

Now here's the problem, the girls in the friend group aren't like your typical girls that would just say "ew u perv".... Nah these girls will literally maul you a** down to the ground, they will tear you apart with all the information that got given to them and will make a huge scene about it even if it was a small joke. Not to name anyone but one of them is known for being super defensive and hostile.

At this point of time i have fully came clean, stopped doing it cause it was destroying my mental health. So now im here writing this wondering if i should come clean to them and have my a** mauled by them or lie and blame friend 1 for breaking that promise.

Do you think i should come out clean or lie and blame friend 1?

TL;DR they are still investigating but i may not make it out in one piece T-T

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Chuckles_E t1_j6ox0fg wrote

Deny, deny, deny, that's your personal business and you wouldn't ever tell anyone about it. They're just making up stories.

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Darkrain0629 t1_j6ox3qa wrote

>Do you think i should come out clean or lie and blame friend 1?

No you need better friends period dude.

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twohedwlf t1_j6oxa9p wrote

Oh no, a teenage boy that wanks to every pretty or even not too ugly girl in the vicinty. This is completely unheard of, teenage boys have never wanked before let alone to girls.

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Thick_Information_33 t1_j6oxr53 wrote

Life rule: when you tell someone a secret, it is no longer a secret. Do not be shocked if you hear it everywhere. Always expect it to become public information as soon as you disclose it. If you wanted it to be kept secret, you would have kept your mouth shut about your private matters.

On topic - most guys I know from high school did that. It’s very basic and horny teens do anything to appease their Hormonal Overlords. Both guys and girls.

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TuckerCarlsonsOhface t1_j6p0cxx wrote

They’re “investigating”? lol, What are they going to do, subpoena phone company to get transcripts of your private conversations?

As far as you know all that happened is some jerk was making stuff up about other people. Ignore, and deny. Teen boys wank it to literally anything, and nobody wants to know about it anyway.

Truth or dare is a party game, you don’t need to actually tell your secrets, and anything you want to stay secret should NEVER be told to anyone. Ever.

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DayumnDamnation t1_j6p16d0 wrote

Non of their business. If you are attacked stand your ground

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Samasher17 t1_j6p4rxn wrote

Replying to RhubarbParticular736 (#1,684,234)

It sounds like your friend group is maybe worse, kid.

My advice, as a teacher, a parent, and a guy who was once a teenage boy, is to keep this shit to yourself, downplay it casually if it's ever mentioned, and move on with your life.

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Justadabwilldo t1_j6p5f1u wrote

I am so fucking happy I’m no longer in high school

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AcrobaticSource3 t1_j6pf9bi wrote

You have only one option: develop a Getting Mauled kink so when they maul you at least you enjoy it

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