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Whytmage t1_j4ff6ex wrote

I absolutely don't care about any perception of broken English. I see a lot of people apologise for it as not their native language, and I'm always like I never would have known.

But for the love of God TIFU posters, can you please add paragraph breaks? Giant wall of text is a huge turn off.

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OberonPrimeGX t1_j4fizm4 wrote

Maybe you don't want to hear this. Maybe you need to hear this.

You lack self-confidence.

I'm only saying this because I also lacked it when I was much younger. None of that "talk good about yourself in a mirror" crap is going to fix that. If you have to talk yourself up all the time, then you still lack confidence. Part of your mind sees yourself as inferior, and that your lady would drop you to the side for someone "better" than you. This all stems from a lack of self-confidence, my friend.

Do something about it. It doesn't even matter what it is. Paint a picture, sketch a tree, learn to cook foreign cuisine, take up a martial art, cut down a tree even. Build a Koi Fish pond. Feed some wild animals at a park. Write a poem, a book... an opera. Take up flash dancing, photography, caligraphy. Get lost in the woods. Climb a mountain. Jump off of a fishing boat for fun.

Just do something and keep doing it until you kick ass at it. The self-confidence will occur on its own. That is my sincere advice to you, from one man to another.

Also your English is perfectly fine.

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Col_Gunter t1_j4flnnu wrote

I appreciate your comment but I kinda disagree with you. But not 100% sure maybe you r right ahah

Like I see myself as realistic person. I don’t think that she might started dating someone bc she’d found someone better, I assume that it is possible bc hardmode version relationship on distance when you don’t see each other in person for 3 or 6 months slowly killing feelings and bindings. And when I write that she’s a 10 and it counts I mean that life is life and when everyday fcking shittone of different guys craving for her attention, chances that one could get lucky grows from week to week, from month to month.

As for my self esteem, I don’t feel myself inferior, I wouldn’t call myself 10 either but a solid 8 easily. But for guys it’s ok to be less attractive then your gf as long as you have some personality.

Ofc as many of us without narcissistic disorder I tend to question my “coolness” in my own eyes but I don’t think that it’s time to worry about self esteem. Buuut, maybe you are right and if I accomplish smthing I believe is great I would become less worrying person

P.S. Thank you for complimenting my English

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