TSZod t1_j6amg0m wrote on January 28, 2023 at 11:28 PM

Hmmm..While you absolutely harbor some resentment there and it may in fact be true.

This sounds a lot like "Call of the Void" or as some may say an "Intrusive Thought" you let slip past the gates.

I'd say a simple apology and just that you were really upset at the time. Explain that he's a great father and you just took XX out on him. We try to be the best to our spouses but all of us just snap sometimes and say hurtful things we don't intend to.

[deleted] OP t1_j6aoviw wrote on January 28, 2023 at 11:46 PM

That’s what I did. Thank you for the advice. He is definitely upset and I can’t blame him for that. We’ve been together for a decade now and I just feel awful for saying what I said.

These-Dragonfruit189 t1_j6avqp6 wrote on January 29, 2023 at 12:38 AM

Don’t forget… we always hurt the ones we love, but being someway pretentious with people we don’t care so much about to appear perfect. Just explain that you had a hot moment for xxxx reason and you of course didn’t mean that and bring up some 6-7 years old memory that was a “standard” in his part.