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[deleted] OP t1_j6lu388 wrote

Reply to comment by Gerald_Bostock_jt in TIFU By accidentally leaving me and my sisters cash out in the open by [deleted]

My sister would be the girl you tell this to do. I don’t think I could, even though I hope he stubs his toe everyday, I still wouldn’t do that.

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PigeonOnDrugs t1_j6lvq35 wrote

Then tell your sister to do that, money is money, and the one who earns it gets to spend it.

Finding it isn't really "earning it".

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[deleted] OP t1_j6lvszo wrote

Our mom would kill her lol. She probably wouldn’t. Plus knowing my mom she would try and have us arrested 💀😂

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[deleted] OP t1_j6lvwn1 wrote

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[deleted] OP t1_j6lw009 wrote

I’m not 18, you can’t really pawn or sell stuff without being 18.

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HumanStruggle8295 t1_j6lztww wrote

Friendly reminder to not listen to internet stranger's advice, what happen to you is not something they care about they only LOVE revenge and "an eye for an eye", which funnily enough ends up in everyone being one-eyed.

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ErinBLAMovich t1_j6lvtg9 wrote

You have to stand up for yourself in this world or everyone is going to take advantage of you. Hoping a literal thief "stubs his toe" but otherwise gets a free ride? That doesn't make you a more ethical person, it just makes you a doormat.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6lvyj7 wrote

I mean, I just don’t think two wrong make a right. If someone does something bad to me, and then I do something bad to someone else, wouldn’t everyone just being doing terrible things to each other? I believe in revenge, but sometimes you have to break the cycle and be the bigger person. (Also pawning things requires an ID and you gotta be 18) 😂

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thirsty_pretzelzz t1_j6lyymy wrote

But you wouldn’t be doing something bad to just “someone else”, it would be doing it to that person as repercussions for their actions. What your saying would mean bad stuff would still happen, it would just be one directional always to the people who don’t deserve it. Showing them there are consequences actually leads to “less bad” in the world since it shows it won’t be tolerated

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United_Major_4264 t1_j6lx7p0 wrote

I'm not saying you should actually take anything, but you can't steal what rightfully belongs to you. It's not wrong to stand up for yourself or take care of yourself. I sincerely hope you and your sister do what's best for yourselves, either way. Stay safe.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6lxakq wrote

You’re right, I’m just really upset as well.

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Popular_Spray_253 t1_j6lxwuu wrote

Do you have any aunts or uncles you can talk to that might be sympathetic?? You could even get a court order to go live with them instead. Just an idea.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6ly2xi wrote

None left, my grandparents live a few states away. I turn 17 in three weeks so then I’ll only have a year left

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Letifer_Umbra t1_j6m4v9l wrote

There is no cycle to break if the other one continues. You have shown it is easy and without problem to tskr advantage of you. They will just keep doing it. That is the cycle to break.

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Nitroghast t1_j6mf4sn wrote

Going to the police is not a wrong. Not going is wrong, you should report a crime as soon as you can. To be the bigger person you first of all have to follow the law. You can't let a wrong slip through, especially if that's not just any wrong, is litteral theft, you must go to the police if they keep saying they won't give you the money back

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DieselWins t1_j6m3x5z wrote

By not presenting solutions to get your money back and not telling your parents it's time to compensate and not filing a police report, you and your sister are enabling his theft and letting him know that he can get away with it in the future. If you're willing to be sneaky, your next best revenge is to delete his Fortnite account. You may need a security code for this. That would hit him HARD if he's like any of the Fortnite players I know. Your mother is actively causing trauma to you and your sister. Stand up for yourself and your sister and do something about it.

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JohnArce t1_j6msxzj wrote

this is a great revenge. OP talks about hiding his controllers, but he'll just get more from his mom. His mom's money won't buy him back his stats and unlocks.

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