Submitted by whaletacochamp t3_10z510x in vermont

I don’t know if it’s the gloomy weather or what, but every day this week I’ve witnessed angry antagonistic downright dangerous behavior on I89. I drive 40 miles a day on it so I’m not new to this, but it’s gotten out of hand.

Twice this week I’ve been stuck behind considerable accident related traffic jams when weather was not a factor. Just now I witnessed what looked like two road raging trucks rear end one another to the point where one had their airbags go off. Now the area by the colchester weigh station is a shit show. About ten minutes prior I saw a vehicle angrily flashing their brights at someone who had simply and safely passed them. The flasher proceeded to leap frog and brake check the other car…cmon.

Just chill the fuck out guys. I just want to get my child home safe and not sit behind the consequences of your tantrum for an hour. I guarantee whatever you’re rushing to isn’t that important. Be more like the dudes pulling our Connecticut friend outta the ditch and less like a giant douche canoe

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cdrknives t1_j81jaae wrote

I actually stopped driving the interstate for my daily commute. My stress is better and I get better gas mileage driving slower side roads enjoying the scenery

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thisoneisnotasbad t1_j81kkrm wrote

Not on 89 but I was at Best Buy in Williston headed back onto the road. Someone got pissed and break checks the car behind them. Guy didn’t notice and fucking plowed into the car destroying the backend.

I laughed because I assume the break check guy has the mistaken thought being rear ended makes the other person at fault and that is not the case.

The tldr; don’t drive like a dick.

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TheArchitec7 t1_j81ncrb wrote

Sadly, the one who got braked checked is often found at fault if there is no witnesses/video. To an outside observer, ignoring pleas of innocence, it looks like they were going to fast and rear ended the braker.

After someone passed me IN THE BRAKE DOWN LANE in order to brake check me on 89, I was motivated to get dash cam. They cost like $40 for a low end one and it’s a good insurance policy.

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hamburgerbear t1_j81ti76 wrote

I mean… if you are close enough to someone that you will hit them if they brake check you… it’s definitely your fault. You should never be anywhere near close enough to someone that you wouldn’t have time slow down enough

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squawkingood t1_j81xw2h wrote

I was in a really bad car accident a few weeks ago in South Burlington. I was driving to work in the morning, going south on 89, when a car driving in the northbound lane swerved from the passing lane, went across the grass median and hit me head on. Both me and the other driver survived, but they totaled my fairly new Hyundai Kona that I only had for less than a year, and I was in the hospital for a week with a fractured sternum and a fractured pelvis. I'm now recovering at home but it will still be at least another month until I can go back to work.

So people, please do better. Don't drive like assholes on the highway. It's not worth it.

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j820ftf wrote

Holy fuck, pretty sure I saw those tire tracks. Really glad to hear you’re ok all things considered.

That’s a perfect example though - you’re minding your business and some asshat in the complete other side of the median made a dumb choice and almost killed both of you.

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j820odh wrote

I’ve been saying I need one for years, going on Amazon now to get one. I avoid these people like the plague but sometimes you get sucked into it or at least have it in view.

I was a bit back from this incident but to me it looked pretty clear that one guy brake checked the other. But no way I’m stopping on the side of a busy highway in the dark with my kid in the car to make a statement. Theyre both at fault as far as I’m concerned

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j820w86 wrote

The only reason I agree with this is because both trucks appeared to be driving like dicks, and therefore BOTH are at fault as far as I’m concerned. The guy following WAS way too close and the guy brake checking shouldn’t have brake checked. Both of their weekends are ruined. Hope they have good insurance.

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Cozziechov t1_j8255g0 wrote

I will take the most direct route I can to get to work. At the end of the day though, there's 3 routes I might take. None of them are quick or direct, but they are good stress relievers. Sometimes the best part of my day is driving home.

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Cozziechov t1_j825tm4 wrote

This may sound crazy, but hear me out: what if we just stopped with the road rage bullshit in general? Where tf do you have to be where arriving 30s later is so important that you need to do 80 in a 55 (side note, that's felony speeding territory)?

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gangbangstripperelf t1_j826tzr wrote

I was about ten cars behind you and holy shit I’m so glad you’re ok. It was horrendously scary to watch. I called it in, but alas i have no useful medical skills and several people who appeared way more equipped to assist stopped to help you. I hope you are doing ok now and will have a full recovery.

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random_vermonter t1_j826uei wrote

It seems like traffic is either too aggressive or too defensive. I nearly got clipped by a truck rushing straight out of a bar to McDonalds. No one seems to know how to take it easy.

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gangbangstripperelf t1_j827h5j wrote

I was literally run off the road (rt 15 near the fort) a week after I bought my new truck: low curbed median - I was able to get myself out of my lane, let the douche canoe continue to rampage and merge back in. The next day I went to Costco and bought one for each car…

Upside I’ve gotten some great karma points on r/idiotsincars with the footage of all the chucklefucks around here doing stupid shit in front of me.

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BooksNCats11 t1_j828817 wrote

I am teaching a teenager to drive. The amount of absolute jackasses we've had to deal with. Yes, he's going slower than is "normal" to make this turn on to a side street...HE'S BEEN DRIVING FOR ALL OF FIVE MINUTES. Fuck off, yo.

We've got the "student driver" sticker but like...that just seems to make some people WORSE.

I knew it always happened but it seems SO much worse in the last couple years.

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VTMike1029 t1_j82ag7j wrote

It isn't only on 89 it is everywhere people are just way more pissed off while driving. I had one younger guy tailgate me all the way off of the Montpelier exit flashing his lights and flipping me off apparently doing the speed limit wasn't fast enough. I don't like confrontation but I was thinking of stopping to say something. My other thought was if I stop I'm probably going to get shot because no one uses their fists to fight anymore they just resort to gun play.

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Faerhun t1_j82ey9v wrote

I fucking dread the highway every day now, you do not know what level of bullshit you're going to run into.

The other day I watched someone try to go between two cars by the Northbound Winooski exit because the guy was taking forever to pass. Dumbest shit I've seen in a while, thankfully nothing came from it. I get that it's annoying as fuck when people take absolutely forever to pass but it never justifies your dumb, dangerous, and selfish bullshit.

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j82hs6z wrote

wow! you did it! you've solved road rage, congratulations!

everyone who would have acted like an ass on the highway has read this and realized the error of their ways! great job!

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j82i1qq wrote

If someone brake checks you and you smash into them, it's your fault. You need to leave enough space to safely come to a stop regardless of the situation.

What if a deer runs across the road or some other situation requiring emergency braking? You are 100% in the wrong if you read end someone. Three seconds minimum following distance

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SlyCooper007 t1_j82i2bn wrote

Driving home today from Burlington and almost got in a few accidents. People are whipping their cars out of streets and people not wanting anyone to be near them in speed. One guy went like 60 just to prove a point on Kennedy. It was weird. Cant tell if its out of staters that moved here or if people are just angry because of the weather but people need to slow the fuck down.

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j82ic5w wrote

No. Absolutely not. It is 100% the fault of the following driver, every time. What if a moose runs in the road, or any of a billion situations you can imagine emergency braking being necessary? If you're that far up someone's ass that then slamming on the brakes ends up with you rear ending them, give some more fucking following distance.

3 seconds absolute minimum.

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ojoe123 t1_j82jept wrote

cough subaru wrx cough cough

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casewood123 t1_j82lb2s wrote

I travel 89 from Saint Albans to Burlington every day for work. It’s a total shit show. Especially from Chimney Corners to any of the Burlington exits.

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TheArchitec7 t1_j82lqnz wrote

I agree that a lot of people follow way too close. 1 car length per 10MPH is a good rule. So giving at least 100ft on the highway is appropriate. But brake checking is different. The assholes who do it pull in front of you and then slam on their brakes. If they do it too aggressively there is literally no time to adjust to an appropriate distance because they merge into your lane and immediately brake. Causing an accident because of brake checking like this is 100% the brake checkers fault.

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hossCEO t1_j82nmb1 wrote

I’ve been tailgated on 89 while doing 70 in the right lane because I’m not up the ass of the car in front of me doing the same speed. People are getting more unhinged by the day

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WingedWheelWins t1_j82rjfo wrote

89 is lunacy. Tailgating assholes out to kill people. I run about 75-80mph. No matter what speed, no matter what weather, there is always someone up my ass.

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12_Angry_Wombats t1_j82s59d wrote

Douche Canoe is underrated imo
Being a transplant from Mass, it's refreshing to drive someplace in VT on the highway and not have someone in a vehicle putting my life in danger.

But well said, there are few things in life that are important enough to warrant driving like a complete ass and putting other peoples lives in danger.

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kalitarios t1_j82w42j wrote

How did connecticut catch shade lol

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BudsKind802 t1_j8330hi wrote

I always enjoy that feeling when someone drives like an asshat and passes me in a huge rush, and then I catch up to them at the next traffic light. Shelburne Rd is great for that sort of karma. I usually give them a little hand wave to say "hi again"

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MikeyBros t1_j834d3g wrote

Mandatory IQ tests for drivers licenses when?

/s

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MargaerySchrute t1_j8361wr wrote

I swear it seems like the worst offenders are contractors.

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Embonious t1_j83alv4 wrote

Traumatic injuries are no joke. The beginning of recovery is really intense, and not just physically. I hope you're doing OK and getting the support you need, and getting at least some decent sleep!

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sheisagarden t1_j83eitt wrote

I hate 89 and I'm only on it for 4 miles, I can't imagine 40 miles of that nonsense.

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RandolphCarter15 t1_j83kfc5 wrote

I lived in DC, with some horrible and rude drivers, and Vermont is just worse. It's weird. It's almost accepted here to turn left in front of someone and act shocked when they honk

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Maleficent_Rope_7844 t1_j83l5yp wrote

I swear aggressive driving has increased in the last couple years. Tailgating, lane weaving, blatantly not paying attention. It's all out of control, especially around Burlington/South Burlington (where I drive most).

Maybe more people here increasing congestion?

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Kyzer t1_j83lvfq wrote

If you see a guy in a company vehicle driving crazy call the company up and tell them. Trust me they want to know and 90% of them will take action.

But also Try driving a work van and see how many rich people take offense when you pass them. It's mind boggling. Lexus, Mercedes, BMW, tesla, etc. I have my cruise control on at all times on the highway and the amount of leapfrogging that occurs with these drivers is nuts.. It's like they can't stand that a blue collar worker passes them. Never have this issue with lower end vehicles and trucks.

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SemperFuu t1_j83m7dx wrote

Call the state police 844-848-8477 next time.

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Umbert360 t1_j83p9r3 wrote

What’s up with that? I’ve lived in NH my whole life and I’ve always had this view of Vermonters as mellow and nice people, but damn! I recently moved close to the Connecticut and the amount of green plates tailgating me and driving like impatient assholes is out of control. I don’t understand what the rush is, we live in a rural area, everyone just needs to relax

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j83pa3c wrote

Yeah I did about 30min for years and when I moved out there my parents (both having sub 10min commutes their entire lives) freaked out. When I told them I was moving even further they just couldn’t understand it.

I work in Burlington and I can whole heartedly say that my mental health takes a dig living in like 90% of Chittenden county. I just can’t live in suburbia.

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thisoneisnotasbad t1_j83qx96 wrote

You are wrong. Maybe In a place like Rutland where people are uncivilized they automatically revert to some antiquated rule akin to burning witches because ducks float or something like that but in the rest of the world, that is not the case. In fact in The rest of non Rutland Vermont you are considered the victim of road rage and the person who intentionally caused an accident can be charged with reckless driving.

Please, explain how a person charged with reckless driving, accident resulting is not at fault?

https://dmv.vermont.gov/enforcement-and-safety/road-safety/aggressive-driving

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casewood123 t1_j83rdms wrote

They very rarely do anything if they don’t see it first hand. They barely showed up at my house after I got broken into. It took them four hours to come. And if you think they got someone at the ready to go pull someone over because they’re driving like an ass during rush hour, you haven’t been around here very long.

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SemperFuu t1_j83rjp4 wrote

If enough people complain they will show up and bust some of those stupid people that are being assholes. If not, when something happens and there’s evidence of regular complaints people get reprimanded or replaced. Use the system for our benefit.

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CozyCabinsVermont t1_j83szqw wrote

Maybe it’s because I’m originally from a metropolitan shithole and well-versed in the ways of insane drivers, but I’m not really noticing a lot of unhinged driving on I89. I occasionally come across a sassy driver, but it’s usually tame stuff that I can safely roll my eyes at. I usually stick to roads for my morning commute, but I do take I89 in the evening to get home faster and on the weekends to get away from the Burlington area.

Is there a particular time and a different part of the route I should be avoiding?

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bowedacious22 t1_j83uoot wrote

Turn off your fucking brights while you're at it please

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Hanginon t1_j8405hn wrote

"...I witnessed what looked like two road raging trucks rear end one another to the point where one had their airbags go off."

Honestly? That would have me laughing at both of them for the rest of the day.

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Maleficent_Rope_7844 t1_j844f63 wrote

That isn't defensive driving, though. Defensive driving is staying alert, anticipating others actions, and not taking risks. I'd argue "going with the flow" is a part of this. Going excessively slow for the conditions can be just as risky as going excessively fast.

Riding motorcycles has taught me more about defensive driving than I've ever learned driving a car. Ride as if nobody can see you, anticipate other drivers actions. That sort of thing.

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random_vermonter t1_j844uj6 wrote

Regardless of what it is called (I really don't care), I'm describing a situation that is often cited by out of state drivers as one of the worst traits of Vermonters. I usually only slow down for the conditions or when there's a traffic backup.

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Maleficent_Rope_7844 t1_j846kho wrote

Probably. What I don't think people realize is it doesn't help anything.

Even if people are stressed in other areas of their lives, getting all bent out of shape because the people in front won't do 20 over the speed limit* only adds to the person's stress. Everybody just needs to chill.

*I'm talking about aggressive drivers tailgating and lane weaving just to make minute advancements in traffic. Don't know what ails the drivers that aren't paying attention.

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lazylady64 t1_j849r77 wrote

Born and raised in California. Trust me, drivers here are angels. Just wish they'd learn the difference between merge and yield.

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j84btju wrote

Because what if they slam on the brakes because there's a child running into the road? What if there's an animal? Or any other of a billion reasons to slam on the brakes. You need to give adequate distance to the person in front of you.

> In fact in The rest of non Rutland Vermont you are considered the victim of road rage and the person who intentionally caused an accident can be charged with reckless driving.

in fact in 100% of the world if you rear end someone insurance will place you at fault

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j84c7kb wrote

Because what if they slam on the brakes because there's a child running into the road? What if there's an animal? Or any other of a billion reasons to slam on the brakes. You need to give adequate distance to the person in front of you.

> In fact in The rest of non Rutland Vermont you are considered the victim of road rage and the person who intentionally caused an accident can be charged with reckless driving.

in fact in 100% of the world if you rear end someone insurance will place you at fault

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j84cb8y wrote

Because what if they slam on the brakes because there's a child running into the road? What if there's an animal? Or any other of a billion reasons to slam on the brakes. You need to give adequate distance to the person in front of you.

> In fact in The rest of non Rutland Vermont you are considered the victim of road rage and the person who intentionally caused an accident can be charged with reckless driving.

in fact in 100% of the world if you rear end someone insurance will place you at fault. really weird you looked up where I live, too. reddit is creepy

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j84ch1z wrote

Because what if they slam on the brakes because there's a child running into the road? What if there's an animal? Or any other of a billion reasons to slam on the brakes. You need to give adequate distance to the person in front of you.

> In fact in The rest of non Rutland Vermont you are considered the victim of road rage and the person who intentionally caused an accident can be charged with reckless driving.

in fact in 100% of the world if you rear end someone insurance will place you at fault. really weird you looked up where I live, too. reddit is creepy

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j84cjhx wrote

Because what if they slam on the brakes because there's a child running into the road? What if there's an animal? Or any other of a billion reasons to slam on the brakes. You need to give adequate distance to the person in front of you.

> In fact in The rest of non Rutland Vermont you are considered the victim of road rage and the person who intentionally caused an accident can be charged with reckless driving.

in fact in 100% of the world if you rear end someone insurance will place you at fault. really weird you looked up where I live, too. reddit is creepy

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BtenaciousD t1_j84fm12 wrote

Serious content aside - love the phrase “Giant douche canoe”. Need to figure out now how I can include that in a sentence.

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j84gg5u wrote

I was concerned for one of them - not enough to put myself in danger. The other one (the brake checker) pulled over, sat on the guardrail, and just cal made a phone call.

Buncha dinguses

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thisoneisnotasbad t1_j84hh07 wrote

I didn't look up where you live. You went off when someone called Rutland shitty and I remembered as I trolled you witch Rutland having the second highest crime rate in the state and you got all in a tizzy. I figured it worked once, may as well try again.

As for you examples, you are describing an accident not reckless driving and your 100% claim is 100% wrong.

Ohhh... And Rutland is shitty.

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partial_birth t1_j84hrzr wrote

I feel like 90% of the road rage on 89 would disappear if people would just treat the passing lane like a passing lane instead of a second lane to go the same speed as the person next to them. You know, follow the law about "Keep Right Except to Pass"?

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takecaretakecare t1_j84j22w wrote

Yeah it’s almost like in the face of late stage capitalism, uncontrollable inflation, war in Europe, increased isolation and screen time, people are losing their grip. Who’d have fuckin thought right? Everyone seems one bad minute away from losing it. Not sure it’ll get better until we start helping each other and turn off the echo chambers and see one another as brothers again.

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philly1750 t1_j84pu54 wrote

I’ve driven 89 so many times and never seen any road rage or bad driving comparing to what I see where I live.

No really if you think 89 is bad then come drive on any rural highway in Quebec or Ontario and you’ll see that they’re total shitshow’s

They’re full of people doing 60mph in the left lane and people merging onto the highway doing 45mph

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j84rtdn wrote

Yup same with my wife’s car. I’ve also flashed people only for them to turn their brights on….whoops sorry friend 😬

What I hate are the jacked up trucks with LEDs in regular projectors so you have two eyes of Sauron blasting at direct eye level in every single mirror. Bonus points if they aren’t secured well and jiggle over every bump.

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username802 t1_j84uk1a wrote

This and the tailgating fkn everywhere. For tailgaters out there: you’re not getting there any faster. Maybe like half a minute? We are going to be stopped at the same red light down the road so just chill man. Use cruise control if you have to. Frame your expectations around the speed limit+5 mph, maybe +10 in the passing lane on the highway. If you’re tailgating me when I’m going over the speed limit, you can bet I’m clicking cruise control down to the actual speed limit and we’re just going slower.

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theGazella t1_j84wgz2 wrote

Someone pulled out in front of me requiring me to lock up my brakes in Williston road. I honked accordingly, she clearly did not give a fuck to LOOK. She then flips ME off multiple times and does 10 mph on the road all the way to home 2 suites or wherever she was staying. Wtf???

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-_Stove_- t1_j84xgl9 wrote

Any evidence to back this up? I've seen folks fly past VSP at nearly triple digits, with no movement. Their response to my complaints: "If we don't see it, there's nothing we can do".

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samantha802 t1_j85gfts wrote

If you cut someone off and then slam on your breaks, they are not at fault. If they have a dashcam you are screwed and your insurance will have to pay for you deciding to drive like an idiot.

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hsrahmas t1_j85pl2e wrote

My biggest issue isn't the highway, it's that people take so long to get going at a light that it turns red. I start every driving session relaxed and it's frustrating having to sit cycle after cycle to get through a light where everyone should've made it the first time.

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escobert t1_j85pr3y wrote

I avoid the interstate if I can. Don't need to get boxed in by 3 massholes racing and then going 15 below the speedlimit to then race you when I just want some groceries.

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philly1750 t1_j85rfjn wrote

I’m not petty for wanting to go above the speed limit in the left lane.

This is why American highway’s are so slow because everyone thinks that it’s ok to drive below the speed limit in the left lane

The signs on the highways that say “slower traffic keep right” and “keep right except passing” say it for a reason

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mrgwillickers t1_j85rsfx wrote

You're petty for tailgating when they arent going the speed limit.

You're even pettier for arguing about it on the internet.

Just accept that your behavior is also dangerous, and that two wrongs dont make a right

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kuz_929 t1_j85t3vl wrote

89 is probably one of the most chill, least crowded highways I've ever used. I don't think you all realize how calm 89 is compared to most other highways in the country... Even in New England

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whaletacochamp OP t1_j85xgp4 wrote

Fast and crowded doesn’t necessarily mean that the same stuff is happening to the same degree. The amount of freedom on 89 contributes to the problem. The second someone doesn’t feel free to drive whatever speed they want they flip.

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kuz_929 t1_j85xrdp wrote

Have you ever driven 95, 90 or the Merritt Parkway in CT? The amount of road rage and BMWs slipping in and out of traffic is exponentially more than 89. 89 is like a McDonald's play place in comparison

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KITTYONFYRE t1_j86a2b9 wrote

sure, if you swerve into their lane and slam the brakes. that's not the premise of 99.99% of brake checks, in which the person you're following is already in your lane. fair enough on swerving in first though

and finally I'm not trying to le reddit you but *brakes

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lantrick t1_j86cqc7 wrote

You've convinced me. I'll chill out from now on. Enjoy the tranquility.

Sorry . My bad.

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popquizmf t1_j887da2 wrote

No it's not an example of that. Where in all that description did we read about the other driver making a poor choice? We didn't. All we know is they came from the other side of the highway.

You may well be correct, and probably are. Let's not pretend that mechanical failure, tire failure etc can all cause accidents at no fault of the owner/driver.

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popquizmf t1_j887r9n wrote

You are the problem. Just wanted you to know that. Behaving in escalatory behavior like that just shows the world how emotionally immature you are. You sound just like every road rage bro I've ever dealt with: dumb.

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popquizmf t1_j887yv5 wrote

Come to the upper valley, it's nice here. The only idiot drivers are from the local high school, and of course NH. Obviously that's not entirely true, but highway traffic doesn't exist. My commute to St J takes 30 minutes and I'm lucky if I see more than 20 cars on my side over 25 miles.

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Maleficent_Rope_7844 t1_j897ysb wrote

I've been once or twice, it is nice. I grew up in a small town in central Vermont and when it wasn't a busy time tourist-wise the traffic was like that.

For me it's a dilemma. I don't like lots of people and traffic, but I do like living near stores/my job. Can't have it both ways unfortunately.

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unauthorizednickname t1_j8a66ra wrote

I agree it’s gotten worse over the years. However, I just got back from a few days in New Jersey and boy was I relieved to be back on 89 in Vermont after that.

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Northwoods01 t1_j8gpv4z wrote

It's quite sad, but this is how most of the northeast drives. The east cost kamikaze driving is just a form of social contagion that untill recently hasn't affected us in Vermont. In almost all the surrounding states, the accepted style of driving is needlessly abusive, callous, and borderline suicidal. The interstate outside of Boston is regularly 80+ miles per hour, honking and aggressively cutting each other off while tailgating. NJ Turnpike is even worse. I think it was coming here eventually one way or another.

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Brilliant_Capital259 t1_j8q5ifv wrote

My very first day living in VT I was on 89 and had, almost back to back, 2 of the most insane road-rage confrontations of my life. One guy literally followed me for like 30 miles while screaming at me. I moved here from Chicago, and used to live in LA, so I’ve seen plenty crazy drivers, but Vermont genuinely takes the cake for most deranged and antisocial drivers.

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