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Aperron t1_jdsesgm wrote

I think it’s the best system possible for our rural communities, and that those who take issue with the system and traditions have expectations and priorities that are in some ways incompatible with living in a rural area where every aspect of local government and services rely almost entirely on volunteer labor and continual community engagement.

If you can’t make it for a few hours once a year to debate/discuss issues, and don’t want to look your neighbor in the eye while you cast a vote that could be for example financially devastating to their interests or raise taxes to the point they can’t afford the land that’s been in their family for 6 generations, then you probably also aren’t volunteering on the local fire department, mowing the athletic fields or serving on any local boards to actually implement the issues you’re voting on.

Many of the people demanding a switch to ballots just want to swoop in, vote based on a superficial understanding of town business while applying a heavy lens of the national (un)civil discourse and pop culture and swoop out not unlike how our national political system works. That’s simply not workable for small town life. Those people lack even a basic understanding of local history or dynamics and additionally usually have no respect and often times hold significant contempt for the people who actually dedicate significant chunks of their lives into the town on a volunteer basis.

Go to town meeting. Be engaged enough to know what you’re even voting on. Join your local volunteer fire department or rescue squad and raise your kids in a way that they learn the necessary values and life skills to do the same. Volunteer to mow the cemetery and athletic fields. Push back vigorously against those who try to inject the national discourse into our small town way of life.

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ChocolateDiligent t1_jdy4xlf wrote

I’ve been the outsider you talk about but was fully informed on issues, served on a committee, went to board meetings, etc and still had a mass of local townies want to yell in my face and intimidate me for having a difference of opinion. Funny you mention looking your neighbor in the eye as one casts a vote… One of the proposals that was voted on was an issue that was never brought to the residents on the roads it impacted the most in the new proposal, yet so many, not unlike your comment cried how they were community minded people yet completely failing to see the irony of their efforts.

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Aperron t1_jdt7nzk wrote

You’re right, they should be attending selectboard meetings whenever possible too. Ideally volunteering for positions in town, and serving on the fire department or rescue squad as well.

Then they would actually know what’s going on and actually be able to weigh in appropriately as someone with skin in the game.

They’d also likely be busy enough in their world as it exists locally to not be wholly consumed mentally by the problems of the world outside their town.

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