11SomeGuy17

11SomeGuy17 t1_jee4u26 wrote

I'm pretty sure most people go through their work week waiting for the weekend. That's how it is at jobs you hate. Unless you have something to enjoy after work (be it a hobby or a partner or whatever) you aren't going to enjoy days you work. Even then, you'll be going to work and watching the clock all day. So you won't get fulfillment out of your work but you can at least get it from a hobby or something. Still, you should definitely change careers if your work makes you feel this bad. Or at least, take less hours and get part time somewhere else to at least spend less time at your current work.

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11SomeGuy17 t1_j6ns7t6 wrote

I mean, if you know them, use your best judgment. My brother does stuff like this regularly where I'm out maybe coming home from work or something and just offers me a ride because we live pretty close. This seems like quite a normal thing for people who are close. Family and good friends generally like helping each other out and seeing each other. Same deal with friends and my Aunt who'll sometimes see me out walking in rain or something and offer me a ride just because they care.

Not everyone is out to get you. Ofcourse you should always use your best judgment, if its just some random person I'm not stepping a foot in that car but I generally heavily vet those close to me so anyone who I trust enough to consider a friend is someone I'd trust. Although not everyone vets their friends particularly well so I understand having some mistrust but really, if I thought someone was gonna do something to me they wouldn't be my friend in the first place.

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