By night class I meant a class in the evening, y'know, like between 7-8pm. Before bedtime but after work. Chess sounds like a good start though.

You need to find new friends. these guys suck. Can you find a hobby or night class where you might meet new people?

OMG I just looked up bad dragon and found the tentacle. Nope nope nope. Looks like it would work like a cheese grater.

Mate you screwed up with your girlfriend. Sorry about that, but please get therapy. You should be able to get it up no matter what the lady looks like. Those 'bitch queens' did a real number on you. Your outburst may have been a subconscious cry for help.

I guess you have a few options:

1. Run with it! Make all his fantasies come true by getting a pedi and let him massage your feet and love you for loving him enough to indulge his fetishes.
2. Run away! Decide that it's just too weird for you and move on.
3. Do nothing. Stay as you are, let him have his foot porn time (it isn't hurting you or anyone else.) Carry on with your lives.

Someone I know had a NDE and saw the machine elves.

Edit: He was terrified and is now afraid of death. Most NDE's experience lightness, tunnel, euphoria etc.

NTA and you could've been right, she might have.

I think you had a bad time and you'll both get over it.

"but we have talked since and she doesn't resent me for what happened... we both agreed we needed a break until the next trip and there are things in our life we need to change and improve first..."

Absolutely. It sounds like you need to be kind to yourself and each other. Yeah ans as someone else said, stay away from whoever you got them from because that aint right.

Hope you are both ok. try to give each other lots of hugs. Snuggle under a blanket with hot chocolate, you need to comforting.

Baaaaaaahahahahahaha!

Give her extra cuddles and chocolate. Periods are horrible.

Let her know you don't think her body is anything but beautiful, you were just giving her privacy and didn't mean to upset her.