420basscat
420basscat t1_iujx5bo wrote
Reply to My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
As others are saying he did break up for you. Best you can do is give him space.
Do not text or call him first. If he wants to talk he will reach out to you.
Focus on you during this time. Find a counselor or friend to confide in. Don’t wait around hoping for him to come back but do keep in mind some space and going no contact does give him the chance to do some thinking and possibly realize he made a mistake. Continually reaching out will only push him away further
420basscat t1_iuk5nc9 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Calling Boyfriend Daddy by [deleted]
I think a better take away is you two are not compatible. If it’s something you really like and he really hates that’s really all there is to it.
You can’t force him to be ok with it. Just as he can’t force you to not want to call him daddy. If it’s something you REALLY like to do and cannot honor his request for you to stop then at the end of the day you just are NOT compatible.
Neither of you are wrong for your preference, sometime you just won’t see eye to eye with people.