8vox8
8vox8 OP t1_jeevj49 wrote
Reply to comment by Creative_Recover in I (26f) haven't had sex with my fiancé (27m) for longer than I can remember by 8vox8
I just really care about him and don't want to hurt him
8vox8 OP t1_jeeticn wrote
Reply to comment by Creative_Recover in I (26f) haven't had sex with my fiancé (27m) for longer than I can remember by 8vox8
He tells me he loves me, he couldn't be without me, works hard to support us financially, he's protective, idk what ways is he supposed to?
8vox8 OP t1_jeeqvmm wrote
Reply to comment by Creative_Recover in I (26f) haven't had sex with my fiancé (27m) for longer than I can remember by 8vox8
He does value me, there's a lot more to it than just the intimate side, I know he loves me and if anything that makes it harder because he always says he'd be lost without me, loves me more than anything, can't see a life without me etc. I know he loves me I just don't think he shows it in the same ways I do
8vox8 OP t1_jeeq0n2 wrote
Reply to comment by YourRAResource in I (26f) haven't had sex with my fiancé (27m) for longer than I can remember by 8vox8
I appreciate the honesty and perspective. It's just so difficult because he is a wonderful person, I really do love him and want him to be happy. He always says he would be lost without me and I just can't imagine ever hurting him. But I'm not sure that I am happy, I'm not sure that I want this and I'm not sure this is right for me. It breaks my heart but I don't want to hurt him. I want it to work so so badly but I'm not sure what else I can do
8vox8 OP t1_jeewz6k wrote
Reply to comment by Creative_Recover in I (26f) haven't had sex with my fiancé (27m) for longer than I can remember by 8vox8
I've tried to discuss these things with him in the past but nothing really changes and I'm tired of saying the same things over and over y'know