We did Camp Kiwanee, but there are some really nice VFWs and public event spaces (libraries, town halls) and we used Fireflies BBQ for catering and sincerely everyone loved it.

What helps me is rationality, crying is a release of emotion. Is this emotion helping me in this situation, in most business situations its working against you, and why would you chose to work against yourself. It wont fix it overnight but focusing on whether sharing my emotions or being emotional in that moment is actually hurting whatever my goal may be, helped me to save it for more appropriate times, like feel good news stories or Christmas commercials : )

Change it to a more conservative color then change it back once you’re hired.

I absolutely would recycle mattresses, pillows, and textiles, but you cant put them in your bin, no drive around and find a bin to donate them. If you want people to comply you need to make it easy.

Honey, we need to talk