It doesn’t really matter if you find it cringe- you’d be doing them for her, because she likes them and to show you much you care and appreciate her. The fact that you haven’t been doing them says to me that you aren’t actually willing to step up for her spells a doomed relationship.

We’re early 30s and have sex about 4-5 times a week on average. He could probably be okay with less, but I have a high sex drive so we try to go as close to 1x a day as we can. I think it’s different for everyone like others have said.