So are you exclusive BF and GF or just hooking up?

This is going to blow up either way.

She does not want any contact with you if you are blocked on everything. Respect that.

Nah you fucking hid it for 5 months. If he wouldn't have found out, you would never tell him. I hope he dumps you.

You are welcome. Goodluck talking to him.

>I spoke to him about my concern for med school and he believes he is capable of having a full time job while cooking, cleaning, etc while I study 12+ hours a day, however his actions now say otherwise

This is correct. Goodluck with this and with medical school. I hope the relationship can work out.

How is it not your place? Your his partner. And i can understand his moms approach if it hasn't clicked for him now. I don't think it will soon.

> I feel like he does not comprehend having a full time job and adult responsibilities

That is a big problem if you want to build a life and have a future together. Does he already handle responsibilities? Like household chores since he is at home?

I would prefer straight to the point and no beating around the bush. I think his feelings will be hurt anyways.

I would maybe show him this post or set your talk up like that. Say you get the feeling he is not putting in the effort and that he expects it to fall out of the air etc. And then let him speak if he agrees or what he thinks about it.

He won't change. Get out of this wile you still can.

>Obviously I felt guilty

So guilty that you fucked him the whole night. How do you accidentally cheat? please explain it to me.