Initially I was like sure, that’s fine. Then I got to the ‘hung out at her home’, ‘go shopping with her’ and ‘texts her everyday’ and I was like errrrrrr no. You are definitely not crazy for being uncomfortable about this.

You have three choices:-

1. confront him and make him make a choice (be aware he could well choose her)
2. you dump him and move on
3. you deal with it and stay with him

Personally, I’d say either 1 or 2, because there is no way I’d be accepting that.

Attempted manipulation. Delete and ignore. One of my ex’s had his mum contact me begging me to take him back, as she was scared of what he’d do to himself. I confirmed he was no longer my problem, he did nothing.