Financial reasons make sense, definitely. Weddings can get quite expensive, even small ones.
Personally, I don’t see how being engaged can be scary when you’ve willingly had a child with this person already lol.
Still, I think I’d actually be completely honest in this case. I’d probably confess to knowing her plan and explain why I wasn’t ready and that I’d like to wait a few more years.
Or, you can both discuss having a long engagement, if you’re willing to say yes. Personally, I’m a fan of long engagements, but I know some ppl aren’t.
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Reply to comment by SapphireChi in My gf (20F) wants to propose and doesn’t know that I (21M) know by SapphireChi
Financial reasons make sense, definitely. Weddings can get quite expensive, even small ones.
Personally, I don’t see how being engaged can be scary when you’ve willingly had a child with this person already lol.
Still, I think I’d actually be completely honest in this case. I’d probably confess to knowing her plan and explain why I wasn’t ready and that I’d like to wait a few more years.
Or, you can both discuss having a long engagement, if you’re willing to say yes. Personally, I’m a fan of long engagements, but I know some ppl aren’t.