Assortedark74
Assortedark74 OP t1_iuj1yes wrote
Reply to comment by Middle_Storm_1421 in Boyfriends parents don't like me by Assortedark74
It’s mainly his father pushing him to also be against it which I hate that :/
Assortedark74 OP t1_iuj1s44 wrote
Reply to comment by Own-Understanding428 in Boyfriends parents don't like me by Assortedark74
This was actually going to be me meeting his parents and brother, I was planning on bringing gifts for them all as an introduction hoping they would see around my being American (I honestly wish I wasn’t an American), but ugh it kinda disappoints me that they would push him to that level, parents are supposed to be supportive.. at least I think they are right?
Assortedark74 OP t1_iuj1b5c wrote
Reply to comment by _20110719 in Boyfriends parents don't like me by Assortedark74
It was more them forcing him and it stressing him out which is why he mentioned it, that’s when we had the conversation about keeping it secret from his parents which made him feel a lot better and he said he regretted saying that
Assortedark74 OP t1_iuj0u42 wrote
Reply to comment by murderousbudgie in Boyfriends parents don't like me by Assortedark74
No he told me that he was thinking about it but after a while he mentioned he still really cared for me and didn’t want to, that’s when we had the “hey maybe we should keep this secret from them for a while“ talk and that made him instantly feel better about everything
Assortedark74 OP t1_iuj41dz wrote
Reply to comment by murderousbudgie in Boyfriends parents don't like me by Assortedark74
It’s been my goal for 3 1/2 years now (before I met him, he just helped with motivation