Baleofthehay
Baleofthehay t1_j9t39gp wrote
Reply to LPT Request: Please Please only honest answers to this serious subject. I am kind of scared and its unusual for this to happen. by [deleted]
>I believe in god and religion and everything (Im muslim), but how do we know that theres a god? Theres nothing proven that there is one.
You just made a contradictory statement. That's OK, it's real. Ask this "God " to reveal himself to you. If he is real, he will, in his own way, so you will know. Surely a God would do that? Now go to sleep in peace.
Baleofthehay t1_j1wpfm5 wrote
Reply to comment by Other_Account_6435 in LPT Request What are some strategeies you all use to reduce work-related guilt when doing something fun? by Other_Account_6435
Thanks for the appreciation. I like to be as detailed to avoid confusion
Baleofthehay t1_j1u0vnh wrote
Reply to LPT Request What are some strategeies you all use to reduce work-related guilt when doing something fun? by Other_Account_6435
You are taking your job far too seriously. Have a look around you, are your bosses running around everywhere supporting the workers. Giving them what they need in a timely manner. Actually doing their job and managing people. They have got all the time in the world and this is on the job, while you are away from work stressing about work.
Your work has no loyalty to you. They'd drop you in a heartbeat if they had to. Remember, you are just another number and don't believe the BS that you are valued. If you were that valued, they'd be paying you more.
When your fellow employees and bosses clock out, they don't give two shits about work.
They know the game, it seems you are still catching up.
A strategy to help build a new perspective is pretend someone you love just died. Would you be worrying about work things ? Of course not, because those things will still be there when you get back. Your loved one won't be. Now you know what's really important .
Baleofthehay t1_iubssuw wrote
Reply to LPT: A psychology trick to make people sound stupid when having a terrible opinion is to say “I agree/used to agree but ____” which will either make them look more stupid or will make them feel stupid. by AlexTI66881
People can smell manipulation a mile away. You try these type of lines on me twice, and you have shown your cards.
I would have figured out you have low self-esteem, no backbone, while thinking you are smart.
Definitely someone not to be trusted.
Baleofthehay t1_je46nql wrote
Reply to LPT Request: how can I get more patient with people? by Pippa_Lee
You don't know that person's history, health/mental conditions or disability.
Afford the same grace and respect you would expect people to give your vulnerable loved ones.