We rent so cant do some of that unfortunately. Our friend in hvac said theres not much to do as its gas heat and supply is limited. The house is unmaintained and minimal insulation plus second floor with nothing buffering the wind. We lived but it sucked lol

We were at 51 around 3am. Slowly going up but we have space heaters now

Mines struggling too

YOU are placing no accountability on his behavior. You have options. You are choosing not to use them.

Are you really equating height with maturity? Maybe youre perfect for him then lol

Youre going around in circles. Either you want to date him or you dont. Hes practically a child. What he is doing doesn't matter if you think it's gross or not, your actions do. Lots of kids have crushes on older people. He isnt stopping because you are feeding into it.

You literally said he wont leave you alone. Either you like it and want to date him or you dont. Pick one.

Ok then date him. I dont know what else to tell you. You seem to be looking for validation rather than advice. .

Who cares? If they dont understand ‘he is aggressively flirting with me after i asked him to stop’ then they arent friends.

So block again. You arent required to respond to him.

Then stop complaining if you wont continue to block him and he wont listen to your boundaries. He is t owed your time. You dont owe him anything. Either grow a spine and ignore him or live with it.

But you're allowing him to by responding. You obviously like it or youd block him and ignore him.

Youre allowing this to happen. Why are you even asking for advice? Block him and move on if you dont want to be with him. If you want to be with him, do it and stop asking for validation.

Its not ageist lol hes barely out of his teens!! Youre over 30. Youre just trying to validate something you know is wrong

But he ISNT your age. Even if he seems mature, he hasn’t otherwise expect a man your age would have. Be friends with him if you must, but give him time to mature and grow up a little bit without leading him on.

Block. Ignore. Walk away. Call the police if he continues to harass you. Because if you truly don’t want to talk to him and he won’t leave you alone, it is harassment. But he is also barely an adult and it’s inappropriate if you continue a relationship with him.

He is barely an adult. Gross. Leave him alone.

Half the people i know right now

Yep. Waiting patiently lol