BeltalowdaOPA22
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jegnsoj wrote
Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
If you find it creepy, you should not be dating him. But as you can see from this thread, no one else thinks that sharing food is inappropriate behavior, only you do.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jegnair wrote
Reply to Husband (35M) wants me(34M)to watch movies with him I am not interested in genre wise and he gets mad that I say no by [deleted]
Does your husband have a history of dismissing your opinions? Getting angry because you won't watch movies he wants you to is not normal.
My boyfriend is a huge horror fan, and I am not. He has never once gotten angry or upset with me for not watching a horror film with him, because that is crazy behavior.
If this is the only thing that he's being a jerk about, I highly suggest counseling. If this is an ongoing issue where he gets mad if you don't do what he wants you to do, you may want to consider divorce.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jeglaib wrote
This is entirely a you problem. They are not kissing. And if you are jealous of your boyfriends relationships with his family, you should be seeing a therapist to work through your insecurities.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jed43v8 wrote
> But my queen has taught me that age is just a number.
You spelled Groomer wrong. Literally grooming.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jec52e2 wrote
Well, he's told you how he's going to treat you, so if you stay with him, you know that you are going to be his maid. Is that what you want?
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jaf0oqp wrote
Your post was removed because it doesn't fit the subreddit. Stop reposting it.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jaf0kxu wrote
Reply to comment by ambs782 in My (F28) mother (F49) wants me to donate my eggs to her to have another child by ambs782
Except this sub is for relationship advice and you are not asking for relationship advice.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_ja480u6 wrote
How long have you been dating? Can you afford to live with him and save money? If you live with him, will you still be able to get to your job with no car?
If you live with him and you break up, will you be able to leave? Will you have somewhere to go if things get bad?
Do not trap yourself in a situation you can't get out of. Its better to work to be independent than to live with someone just to get away from your parents.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_j6nqo5d wrote
Reply to I (19 f) and my partner (20m) are still young, should I worry about our different ideas about having kids? by Weird_Permission1250
You want completely different things that will ultimately lead to a breakup. Yes, you are young, but why would you stay in a relationship that you know has a time limit?
And what is going to happen if you accidentally get pregnant? You know that your boyfriend wants biological children and would push you to keep an unwanted pregnancy. Is that something you want to risk?
Not to mention the post that was on here the other day from the woman who had also told her husband that she never wanted to be pregnant, and he sabotaged her birth control to get her pregnant and he did.
Be very, very careful that you are using a birth control method that cannot be tampered with.
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_j6ivpjz wrote
"He's so kindhearted when he's not raping me and saying mean things!"
How many times does he have to rape you before he's not "kindhearted" anymore?
BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_jegqr2x wrote
Reply to comment by smellyrox in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
Are you being deliberately obtuse?
Don't ask for advice if you're going to argue with every single person who doesn't tell you what you want to hear.