You don't have to trust her. You're not in a relationship with her. Simple as that. If it turns out you don't actually trust him around her then perhaps re-evaluate why that is.
>it bothers me he doesn't seem to listen.
Ignoring your concerns outright isn't cool. That's probably a bigger concern. But I would try to address that with him first before deciding where the relationship ultimately goes.
Boysenberry1919 t1_j6kj4or wrote
Reply to My (23f) boyfriend (23m) and his friend (23f) by Cait_2000
>I trust him but I don't trust her
You don't have to trust her. You're not in a relationship with her. Simple as that. If it turns out you don't actually trust him around her then perhaps re-evaluate why that is.
>it bothers me he doesn't seem to listen.
Ignoring your concerns outright isn't cool. That's probably a bigger concern. But I would try to address that with him first before deciding where the relationship ultimately goes.