Also, it is hard to set the boundary and something for us to remember is that anything that we have done pre- current relationship is none of their business. I have always had ex’s that would be mad at my life before them. Try to use things against me that were before them. I learned to never share my’ past‘life. Just a possibility that you might experience some time in your life. Stay safe and sane. Respect yourself because others might not.

You can forgive him if you want, but that does not mean forget it. Do not stay. Love yourself more than he says he loves you. One strike your out. There is no rule that says people get a second strike. I know that you are confused. You will continue to be confused. But be confused alone, or with people who truly have your back and are not trying to get you to stay’ because everyone makes mistakes, he really loves you, he didn’t mean it, etc.If you stay, you will forever have the nagging voice that you do not have the respect for yourself. And you will never have respect for him again. But the fact is you will be sad and angry for not respecting yourself. Believe me Sister. I have your back. You are one of the first people that I have encountered here who is looking for validation in leaving. You know what you have to do. You do it! Pretend you are stronger than you feel and it will propel you forward. Forward is strength 🦋🦋🤘🤘🤘