BroadMindedGuy
BroadMindedGuy t1_iuk1nwy wrote
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Nope. You are rushing into this when not even over your previous relationship. You aren’t setting up any new relationship for success. Anyway, sounds like you are just going to do what you want to do. So giving advice is pointless in your case.
BroadMindedGuy t1_iujykkb wrote
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Time, space and introspection. Go literally do anything but date, work on yourself. It comes with time and understanding.
BroadMindedGuy t1_iujxrt2 wrote
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Slow down. Back things up. Take it slow. If you aren’t over your ex, you shouldn’t be pushing forward with this guy.
BroadMindedGuy t1_iujw2v6 wrote
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You’ve met online three days ago. Slow your horses, you are jumping about fifty million steps to building a good healthy sustainable relationship. By the sounds of this you aren’t even over your ex.
BroadMindedGuy t1_iujvdcd wrote
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So what does your question relate to? You’ve just explained you’ve met someone and you are dating, but don’t want to put a label on it. Soooo what advice are you seeking?
BroadMindedGuy t1_iuj5am8 wrote
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Does it matter? I don’t see how he lied? You googled him before and he checked out. Are you trying to suggest he’s inherently dishonest and deceitful?
BroadMindedGuy t1_iuk2u5z wrote
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Here is the tough love you need to hear. You have met someone online, not in person, 3 days ago and you are talking about being in love and how perfect they are. You have not even met them, you haven’t got the slightest bit of actual knowledge about this person and who they really are. For all you know they are a catfish. No sane person falls in love with someone 3 days after meeting online and never in person. If this guy is pushing the same nonsense he’s just love bombing you because he wants to get his dick wet, then he’ll likely bounce. There is nothing of substance here with what your discussed. You are being entirely foolish rushing into things with a total stranger when you yourself have said you aren’t over your ex. Most folks take a break from dating to get their ex out of their system before going back to dating with a level head. You are rushing head over heels hoping for true love, this ain’t that.