BubinatorX

BubinatorX OP t1_jaxzzsn wrote

I heard that too. Myself and a couple other people I haven’t spoken to in a while are all on the horn updating one another. I’m not sure what I hope for at this point other than closure for his family. I just have a really bad feeling that the worst possible outcome is where this is all headed. I hope you have people to talk to and have around if you need them over the next few weeks. If not feel free to reach out. It’s gonna be hard.

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BubinatorX OP t1_jaxj7kg wrote

I’m really sorry. I haven’t seen him in a few years but I’d always consider him a friend. He’s a funny and person. It’s been a really hard week thinking about him. Be good.

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BubinatorX OP t1_jaqrzzx wrote

His sister said that they are starting at the Aiken st bridge and heading towards dracut/metuen and that if he’s down there they’re not sure how far he’d get. Its day 6 now. She mentioned with that the water temps it’s likely that he had sunk.

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BubinatorX OP t1_japoa38 wrote

You’re not kidding. I know of two people that died off the university ave bridge. One fell and the other jumped. The water is shallow, rocky and extremely fast out that way. I imagine it’s pretty rough now with all the rain over the past few months. Be good!

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BubinatorX OP t1_japcr37 wrote

I believe so. It’s hard for me to picture the area. I haven’t been out that way in a v long time. I’m assuming there’s a path under the bridge along the waters edge? Trying to get more details.

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BubinatorX OP t1_japbdmd wrote

I’ll DM his sister right now and get back to you asap. I know his belongings were found under the Aiken st Bridge around 10am Sunday. I am unsure which side of the river though. Edit: spelling

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BubinatorX OP t1_japb1h5 wrote

100% great point. I use to work in an industry where I was exposed to some pretty extreme trauma. You don’t forget those nights. You remember some of the worst details so vividly. I was young and didn’t have a healthy coping mechanism so it was good that I moved on.

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BubinatorX OP t1_japap84 wrote

Sure is. I don’t use Facebook but my wife has been showing me updates and my heart just aches for his family. I feel like everyone knows that people have been going there and to other bridges across the city for a long, long time. That river is dangerous

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BubinatorX OP t1_jaowq40 wrote

His bag was found under the Aiken at Bridge Sun morning by a couple. A few days later those people answered his phone and told his sister where they found his stuff. The next day they returned his bag and gave her more details. I am unsure which side of the bridge his belongings were found.

I haven’t seen the guy in years but he has always been nice to me and kind to my wife. Everyone who’s family is in one of these situations deserves an answer.

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BubinatorX OP t1_jaouz2r wrote

Thank you & yes the police have definitely been notified. They’re likely going to have a dive team search for him. His poor sister is desperate for answers and can’t wait any longer. Thank you for passing the word.

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