BuzzedtheTower
BuzzedtheTower t1_j58wfu8 wrote
Reply to comment by Treviathan88 in Tifu by being mad at my dad by [deleted]
Hey, man. Maybe it's Cormac McCarthy's kid
BuzzedtheTower t1_it9neze wrote
Reply to comment by hersheymunk in TIFU by telling my husbands best friend that we’re married. by hersheymunk
You really buried the lead on this one, mate. You were pregnant with another man's child, lied to your boyfriend, got married, and then told the truth. He may have "forgiven" you, but that doesn't mean the gravity of the future isn't crushing him.
BuzzedtheTower t1_it9msjx wrote
Yeah, this was a FU. I got married to my wife at 20 and we had been together for five years by that point and known each other our whole lives. And even with that background, it was still really rough some days. Our families and friends knew and we had talked about it for awhile beforehand.
I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think your family was right. I don't doubt your feelings, but you did not have a strong base of trust nor truly know the other person. Those are critical for a marriage. I'm sorry that it is falling apart. Maybe things will work out, I can't say. But marriage is like a contract, it is not to be entered into lightly and you should only do it when you are thoroughly thought about it.
Good luck to your and your husband, whatever the future may bring
BuzzedtheTower t1_j62phun wrote
Reply to comment by Lumpy-Ad-3201 in TIFU by not reading what I purchased more thoroughly. Was on the hunt for CBD and got sold HHC instead. by Dapper-Judge-629
Upvote because I always appreciate good science